The 19th of this month we had our first time, it went great! =]]Well, she's a bit worried about possibly getting pregnant in the future, we are too young to get birth control pills, and we can't really ask our parents to get them for us either. =/Well, I use a condom, and when I feel like I'm going to be close to orgasm, I pull out, grabbing the condom around my penis too (just to be safe) out of her, and then I finish myself off outside of her vagina, I usually get out of her about 30 seconds before I have to ejaculate. Is this a safe method of birth control?and btw, how often do I need to change a condom during sex? I last about 30-45 minutes usually. Tonight I used an ultra-thin Trojan, and I lasted about 45 minutes, is that okay, or do I need to change out every "x" amount of time?And one last question, this is a bit off topic, the first time I didn't finish, because I had a feeling someone was home, I was using a regular trojan, well... The second time (tonight) i used an ultra thin trojan, and lasted 45 minutes, how long would I last with say, a normal condom?
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Quote:Well, she's a bit worried about possibly getting pregnant in the future, we are too young to get birth control pills, and we can't really ask our parents to get them for us either. =/If you're old enough to have sex, you're old enough for birth control. Go see your local Planned Parenthood and get informed. Quote:I pull out, grabbing the condom around my penis too (just to be safe) out of her, and then I finish myself off outside of her vagina, I usually get out of her about 30 seconds before I have to ejaculate. Is this a safe method of birth control?If you pull out in time WITH the condom, yeah. But I wouldn't rely on it forever. Quote:and btw, how often do I need to change a condom during sex?You need to change the condom as soon as you ejaculate. Once you take it off, wipe yourself off clean, and put a new one on. Quote:And one last question, this is a bit off topic, the first time I didn't finish, because I had a feeling someone was home, I was using a regular trojan, well... The second time (tonight) i used an ultra thin trojan, and lasted 45 minutes, how long would I last with say, a normal condom? If you lasted 45 minutes on the thin condom, you'll probably last longer on the regular condom. Although, I do find it strange because generally teens ejaculate within a matter of minutes, especially with the thin condom.
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Thanks so much for your input!! =]And I heard that if your under 18, you cant get birth control pills without your parents with you.And yeah, usually I last about 25 minutes when I'm masturbating, but I last really long during sex, btw idk if it makes a difference (concerning this sub-subject.) but I'm circumcised. =]]And I mean how long can I use a condom before I need to switch it out (if I haven't ejaculated yet?)Thanks soo much for the help! =]
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And I heard that if your under 18, you cant get birth control pills without your parents with you.
_If I'm under 18 and want to obtain birth control, do I need my parents' permission and if not, will thy find out that I'm using birth control?No. You do not need your parents' permission to get birth control at Planned Parenthood, and we will not tell your parents that we have seen you. At Planned Parenthood all of our services are confidential to teens age 12 and older.
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And I mean how long can I use a condom before I need to switch it out (if I haven't ejaculated yet?)
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Wow, I had a really good read! =]Now my only concern is how I'm going to get the cash for her exam, and the pills. How much do you figure it'd cost? the exam is between 35-135 dollars, the pills are 35-50 a month (which I can do) but the exam is whats going to kill me. =O
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Thanks Helms, I'll check it out, I'm going to tell her about the idea today, and try and go by Monday. =]]Thanks sooo much both of you for your help!!
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Originally Posted By: HelmsmaNThere are "financial assistance" programs with PP. I think you have to ask for what's called a "green card" if I'm not mistaken. What Helms said is true. I have one myself. It will help you in the financial part of birth control. And you're welcome.