So I am in love with my current g/f. We get along great and we communicate it is so perfect, but...there are a few issues with me and her.First her:She acts like a teen most of the time and has yet to really find her look and lastly she has had a lot of partners in bed, but it is slightly lacking.Now Me:I have been combating an anger issue as of lately but I think that is related to work. My main issues are the following:I have big issues opening up and kissing her or eating her out. I am commited but I can feel the fear in my body big time anytime we go to be intimate. Secondly I have issues in bed. It takes me hours and I end up focusing on just finishing and I am just unable to enjoy our time. I really want to improve myself and accept her more, but I really need help. Any good advice is wonderfuly welcome!
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Over Coming Emotional Scars
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You guys should go to a fantasia party;). Or go to the stag shop! Find some things to help you out!!!
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Do it more.Seriously. The more you do it the more comfortable you will become.Plus, it's fun!
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sleep with another women you are not so disgusted with. i know from experience. a dirty slut of a girlfriend's past can make you wanna off your face with a 12 gauge. i feel for you buddy.
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If you are going to reply to other people's posts, can you try to reply with decent advice please.
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this was decent advice. if she was a slut and he isn't he probably feel a bit cheated on (not literally) and should go fuck some other girls, not tell her, and he'll be fine. it works. im still married to my little bitch.
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Some people have a conscience. They feel guilt. If he loves her, then he'd realize that sleeping with other people could hurt her emotionally. I highly doubt 'fucking some other girls' would make him 'improve himself' or help him to 'accept her more'.@OP. I was in a very similar relationship - I felt uncomfortable because my girlfriend had been with a lot more people than I had. For me, the only thing that helped me with accepting that fact was time. In the end, we broke it off for numerous reasons - but I still hadn't gotten over that problem. I'm not sure if you're feeling insecure about it as I was (I was pretty jealous of it), so I'm not sure what to advise. For improving yourself, if you mean sexually, I suppose 'practice makes perfect'; you'll likely feel more comfortable with those things with time.