the only time i had sex it was forced, i was not ready one bit for what happened with me and the guy said "you are loose...i don't believe you are a virgin".this has affected me a lot through the years. i may have sex soon but i am worried about this looseness he was speaking of i have read about some exercise that helps tighten vagina. do they really help? is there any way to tighten it or is this just my thinking brought on by what he said?
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Loose?
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The exercises you are thinking about are called Kegel excercises. They help stregthen the vaginal muscles.. butHave you ever thought that that guy who forced himself on you had a really small/thin penis?
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no he was 7 inch or so long and thick. he wasnt in any way small. thats why i am very worried.
my bf right now is a bit smaller compared to that guy.
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Perhaps that guy was used to very young girls. He's certainly not someone you should believe.
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I think that guy is BS'ing you.
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i think so too :frowning: maybe he said that to get rid of me after he used me.
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I agree. I think he was lying.
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now i m pretty sure he was lying. i recently had sex with my bf and found that i wasnt loose at all.
i m feeling pissed off as well as happy. i got some of my confidence back though. :smile:
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That's good. :smile: And good to see you back, Saya!
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You live and you learn. Don't let immature guys like that ruin your self-esteem. He clearly didn't have a clue as to what he was talking about.
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Glad you're feeling a bit better and were able to go ahead with your bf x