Second base issue

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dont know if anyone will read this,but since im a girl, i will tell you.just unhook it in the back, it savesa lot of awkward stuff from happening. :]

This is something of an old thread, but unhooking the back can be frustrating AND embarrassing until the guy figures out how.If a girl does it for him, YAY for him, but he will never learn...lol

I have a question so I'm just gonna add it to this post. What are you supposed to do at second? I mean, what do you girls like the guys to do? I'm afraid it'll be weird for my g/f if I have no idea to do!

Originally Posted By: imasavagedont know if anyone will read this,but since im a girl, i will tell you.just unhook it in the back, it savesa lot of awkward stuff from happening. :] not always, friend!when i was in college, i finally got a fine young lady to my room, kissing all over her face and neck, hand up her shirt, other hand on her sweet ass. i pulled her up and turned, so she was sitting on my lap, and ran both hands up her back, caressing as i went and got to her bra. reaching my hands together to undo it, i could not find the clasp! i just looked at her "what the hell?" she smiled and pulled her top off, "it hooks in front, dummy!" i had never seen a front hook bra!

I had to practice with my gf's bra.. I don't know how many times I tried working with that thing on her.. Me being 18 heh.. She thought it was cute :P

Yep, I can almost guarantee your girl will think its adorable that you're fumbling with the clasp on her bra. My girlfriend still either teases me while I try to do it, or does it herself to show off how easy she can do it. On most back-clasping bras its like snapping your fingers, as in you put your finger and thumb on opposite sides of the clasp and bring your fingers together. This brings the hooks away from eachother, and you can just drop them. If you do it right.

However, in our early exploring days I simply slipped my hands under the cups of the bra. Maybe you should try that if you dont feel like trying the hooks?

All my ex's wore Back clasps or Sports bras. My last Ex though had those hook in the front ones. I remember the first time we were trying to fool around I didn't know what the hell was the matter. There was no clasp! heh, then by the time I got around to seeing it was in front I couldn't undo that because it was so different than ones in the back I was used to. Just...that was an ordeal. She made every opportunity to laugh at me about it from then on, and excuse to demonstrate my new abilities Heh, good times.

I suck at it as well. Usually she just does it, and she laughs when I'm unable to get it. Damn things suck.

juss do what i do... pull down the part of the bra that the breast is in, the part that goes over her nipples and such, and let her beautiful breast pop out, unless she has REALLY big breastest, this shouldnt be a problem... but yea, its the best way as well, because all she does is pop it back in, and shes Good To Go... like a taco bell burrito...

Alright, the boyfriend & I just got to this stage about a month ago, & went through something similar. I'm a C-cup, & when my boyfriend hit that problem, he did flip it up & over. I wouldn't call it uncomfortable, but if he had undone it, it would have been more comfortable for me. After that day, though, I've stopped wearing bras on dates, lol!As for what to DO in second, I think it should come natural for men, since they've got that unhealthy obsession with our luscious chesticles. For me, when we make it to second, it's ALWAYS a thrill, since he's the first one for me, just seeing him together with my girls gets me excited! I also enjoy sucking, licking, etc. If you do this, though, make sure you don't just latch on like a baby, get creative, swirl your toungue, etc. Hope it helps!

I normally just pull the ladies bra off like a shirt, but she finds it sexy to undo it one handed.