Talk about splittin' fuckin' hairs... Oh shit that made me laugh. Come on, don't go down the fuckin' road.
Look, swallowing no more makes him gay than you having a dick in your mouth makes you gay. Maybe he is, maybe you are, maybe neither of you are. I love how it's human nature to classify somebody by their going just beyond how far you were willing to go.
Being gay is something else, something more. Being gay is an emotional, romantic connection felt predominately for the same gender that exists outside the confines of sex.