im a boy, i often masterbate, i rarely ever squirt when i ejaculate, it usually just flows out of me lol, but when i watch porn and stuff and see boys have massive orgasms and squirt their loads it makes me wonder if that should be happening to me, and if theres any way i can achieve this? any help or tipswould be apprecitaed!
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Squirting orgasm (boys)
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I used to have the same thing.Firstly, don't do it so much! If you do it often then firstly you will not have as much "product" to release and so will be more likely to dribble, and also you won't be quite as "desperate" to do it, and so the force is release.Secondly, porn isn't really that hot in reality. I find that the distance I shoot is proportional to how turned on I am, and porn doesn't really turn me on. Sure it's fun to watch and helps, but it doesn't bring about any "passion".With my girlfriend, all of a sudden I started shooting several feet, and it's because I was SO turned on that the pleasure made my muscles tensed and shot it further...
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Some guys are naturally squirters and some naturally dribblers. The squirters tend to be hired more to do porn.
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I'm like you, I never really shoot far.The farthest I've shot was to my chest and that was after 11 days of not masturbating.it does depend on how long I masturbate/have sex and how turned on I am.
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Originally Posted By: superman808The farthest I've shot was to my chest and that was after 11 days of not masturbating. It does depend on how long I masturbate/have sex and how turned on I am. It seems to me that if I stimulate the head of my penis more, then I will usually shoot my cum farther. Like it makes the contractions stronger. (And I agree that the longer it's been since I last did it, and the more turned on I am, those things are definitelhy related to a good shoot versus a nice "dribble".)Okay, I'll admit that a fantasy I like while masturbating is to pretend I'm with a girl and she's really turned on but is afraid to have sex. So I finally convince her to let me put just the tip of my penis into her, and then I promise I'll go real slow and gentile. (So I rub just the head of my penis, and I use some lube.) After a while, I'm starting to feel really intense and wanting to stroke more of my penis, and in my fantasy she decides she wants "all of me". After so much stiulation just on the head of my penis, it seems I will shoot my cum a lot farther!
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I don't know how old you are, I can shoot mine over a meter I would say. I find however it really changes, if my session was long and enjoyable I will shoot further. Also how long in between sessions. Also if you aren't that old you may shoot when you get older.
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You're all right in a way... if you masturbate a lot, you won't shoot as where if you're very very turned on by something, you will more likely shoot. HOWEVER! It may be because you have not "developed" the muscles to shoot. As you get older, you may very well be able to develop them and shoot farther.Also, the length of the sessions and the time between them also vary the distance of your cumshots. So yeah... you're all very right in your own ways...
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Allow yourself to spend more time and use the stop and go method. It will build up to a great orgasm and you will probably shoot quite alot.
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Well Joe,Its a very common question asked by each of us at one time or another in our lifetime. First off... Don't ever compair yourself to the guys in porn. They are making those movies because they have huge dicks, big balls and can fuck for hours and finish off with a hugh, squirting load that could most likely completely coat a small villageI agree that masturbating less often or becoming more aroused than usual will infact, allow you to produce a larger load than you would get after your daily jackoff session but then you'll return to your normal.As much as we would all like to be the mega shooters like those porn stars we like to wish we were. The fact is you are either a shooter or a dribbler. That is the bottom line. Understand that sometimes a shooter will dribble or a dribbler will shoot but we all go back to the way we are.Honestly Joe... Between you and I.... You shouldn't worry about it. As long as it feels good when you cum.... who really cares how your load is delivered?Good luck with that and I hope this helps.
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Originally Posted By: Roc
As long as it feels good when you cum.... who really cares how your load is delivered?
I guess from the porn I've seen it's like we're supposed to shoot our cum all over the girl's tits, or aim it at her face and shoot it all over her face and into her eyes and hair. (All of that I've always thought was pretty disgusting, and insulting to the wonderful girl you're making out with.)
But do GIRLS think they've gotten you more excited or are more impressed if they see us shoot it a distance?? -
Well let me just say... if you ever had cum in the eye you'll understand it's not a pleasant experience lol.As others said NEVER compare yourself to guys in porn, they are by far NOT the standard. As long as you are satisfied after your orgasm, does it matter if you shoot or dribble? I have a hard time believing any girl would really care either way.I can tell you from a gay guys perspective I don't care if my partner shoots or not... as long as he's satisfied that’s all I care about.
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Different guys cum differently if you don't shoot it across the room nothings wrong with you. Porn is fake, keep that in mind. As for coming on her face, I like to do that myself but take care not to get it in her eye. It stings like hell.
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Yeah it depends on how much sexual activity Im experiencing and how long I hold it in. If its a quick jerk then it oozes out but if a lot of things are going out and I hold out for a while, I can squirt really far.
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I use to be a shooter but now im in my thirties im a dribbler. I guess by the age of 25 i started to shoot less. Now pretty much all it is is a dribble i guess getting older has changed things for me??
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Probably just hormones leveling off...And yeah, I wouldn't think it matters, as long as you got that good ol' dopamine and serotonin!! Woo!! (As long as it makes you happy!)
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- Decrease the frequency you ejaculate. If you wait say, a week, instead of a day you will have a larger store of semen to be released.2) When you feel like you are about to cum, stop masturbating and go soft, then start up again when the cumming sensation goes away. Do that as many times as possible before you ejaculate.3) When you fell the urge to cum, tighten your PC muscles (ones you use to stop the flow of urine) as much as you can. Just think of a kink in a garden hose and then you release the kink how much faster the water comes out.If you did those three things a guarantee that you get a decent sized squirt. I know I do those things during masturbation or sex and I usually get a good few feet on the first 2 squirts, then i get about 3 smaller ones. So try it. Hope that helps