A different kind of valentine post.

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Ok really it has nothing to do with it I just wanted to sound more…. Interesting hahaHow did you met your wife / husband / fiancé / girlfriend / boyfriend ? Was it a sper of the moment, friends first, you asked them out or he / she asked you out. Can you remember the first time you saw that person? Did you think it would last long, if at all? Or marriage / living together?The hard one > how do you know she / he was the right one?

I knew the moment we met we would be together. When our eyes met his smile touched my soul. It's been 18 years now and I couldn't imagine living and loving anyone else.We have raised two beautiful kids and now were almost emply nesters....Life.... Wow!

met my girlfriend in highschool, she was on the same bus as me the first time we met. at that time I was still recovering from a rather emo-tastic breakup and didnt say much. that was near the summer time, and then i didnt see her again untill the new school year began. by the end of summer i felt right again and we were both in the same art class. at one point she called me over by saying "hey, you, your a guy, you know what boobs look like, whats wrong with these?" (about a drawing) at that point i had a little crush on her friend (another artist) and so i started hanging out with both of them every day. the other girl was going out at the time, and so i just had a little crush, then kind of unexpectedly two months later my girlfriend asked me to go to gameworks over the weekend. the other girl ended up inviting herself and we actualy went to the zoo. i was confused, but my girlfriend and i started hanging out more after school and such, eventualy we were like "so... are we going out now?" and there was sort of a mutual agreement that yes, we were indeed going out.... its been 3 and a half years now

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Me and Josh met on the internet when I was 17. He was 20. We kinda just talked about online about general things and interests and then kinda just emailed every once in awhile. We kinda stopped emailing and then randomly in my second semester of College We had a split writing class.. and he was in the other class. We didn't even talk once. It was kinda weird! He'd always email me and tell me how pretty I was (heheheh) and that we should do lunch.. and invites to do things but I kinda shut him down everytime. :S. It was all virtual... I swear!! He litterally sat on the computer right in front of me but on the other side.. and I never even knew which guy he was.. (our classes didnt mingle too much.) During summer break he shot me an email saying something like "Its too bad we never talked in college because you were the most gorgeous girl in the class" hehe. I gave him my new hotmail email and we starting talking frequently .. then on the phone.. then finally agreed to meet at a spot near his house.. my friend Kendra was there. We hung out all night.. then saw eachother everyday for like 2 weeks.

I remember him skateboarding towards me in the sunrise (mr U. It was the centre..) in the parking lot. He was wearing this camo bandana.. Skate shoes.. a nice LRG shirt.. And a Thick RED BEARD.. ahahah. He has blonde hair.. I dont really understand it!.. I was freaking out because I had just left this very expensive Saphire ring my grandparents had bought me for my confirmation in a Tim Hortons parking bathroom! I was pretty upset!! Later on he told me that maybe someday he will buy me one (this was a couple months down the road). I thought immediately that this guy was pretty awesome!!!

I've known my current girlfriend for about 6 years (from jr. high school till now my last year of high school). She was in the accelerated program, and I met her through my best friend who was also in her classes. I actually didn't like her too much at first, and we were never that great of friends until 2 years ago. She started coming to movies every few weeks with my best friend and I, and we really hit it off, and have been best friends for the past year and a half. We ended up kissing after I spent a night comforting her for the night, and was confused as to where we were. We've been dating since then, and I've never been happier.

Ive known my girlfriend since the 4th grade. I had a crush on her early on but it was just a stupid little kid thing. After Elementary school i didnt talk to her anymore until late highschool. Every time i saw her she always stood out, there was always something about her from the first day i saw her until today. It was almost like i had this sense that we would someday be together, like she was the one for me, i always had this feeling that if i tried to be with her i could and it would work out but i never acted on it.So we start talking again Senior year of highschool (i think) and after talking for a month or so online we ended up going on a few dates and after that things just took off and it eventually developed into the love it is today. I always knew there was something about her, and now i know why she always stood out. I truly believe we are mean to be together. We have been together for about a year and a half now and we've had our great times and we've had our down right horrible times. I almost even split up with her once. But like a good relationship we always worked everything out.Its far from perfect, but what we have is something special and we've both put alot of time and effort into turning it into what it is today. We dont exactly have it 100% correct yet but we are getting there. Things are good right now and im very happy with the progress we are making. We plan on moving in together by the time we are 20.

I met my girlfriend online 2 years and 2 months ago online on a forum. I had just been dumped by a girl and was feeling pretty low, and she helped cheer me up.At the time I thought that was such a sweet thing to do, and straight away I knew she was someone I would get on with well. She had a boyfriend but I developed a secret crush on her. We talked over IM for a while and even a couple of times on the phone. I would think about her quite a lot, with my share of guilt.Anyway she went through a bad patch back in September last year and I helped her through it. She realised her boyfriend wasn't who she should be with.I went to meet her at her parents house 160 miles away from home on the last day of September and from that very moment I knew that I wanted to be with her from then on. By this point I was already absolutely smitten with her, but meeting her in person sealed the deal for me and I knew that we would go well together.She was and is the most gorgeous, caring, sexy, loving and intelligent person I've ever met.I spent the next week stressing about her situation with her boyfriend, and she did leave him early October. I then stressed about whether she would want to be with me. I had massive self-confidence issues, and so couldn't understand why she would want to be with me. Turns out she felt the same!On October 19th, we had both decided that we couldn't hide our feelings anymore. She told me I shouldn't be single anymore, and I agreed :D....and that's how it has been since I love her so much and I have no doubts that I will be with her til the very end. She's going to be moving in in a couple of months time and I'm really excited about it!How do I know she's the one? It's the way she makes me feel. I feel comfortable with her. It 'fits'. It's like we've been together all our lives. I would do anything for her and I would be devastated if I lost her. I also love her parents to bits!

Originally Posted By: MMAfighter90...we've had our great times and we've had our down right horrible times. I almost even split up with her once. But like a good relationship we always worked everything out.Its far from perfect, but what we have is something special and we've both put alot of time and effort into turning it into what it is today. We dont exactly have it 100% correct yet but we are getting there.MMA, Hey dude. I wanted to tell you how impressed I was with your posting about how you met your girlfriend. I have been together for 18 years with my soul mate. We sure have been to hell and back a few times in the early years but as you said, a good relationship is always worth working out everything. We have this policy that we can’t go to bed mad at each other. Let me tell you, we sure have seen the sunrise on many occasions. But it was worth working it out. We too have something very special. I think we have finely gotten it right 100 percent. So many people are just willing to throw the towel in and give up on the ones they love when it get tough. Relationships are hard. You have two different people learning about themselves, learning about each other, and learning to live together all at the same time and then some try to raise a family on top of that…. It’s hard. But if you want it...you have to fight to get it perfect. You’re going to make a awesome husband/friend/ partner/lover to your girlfriend. She’s a lucky girl. Most guys don’t have it together. Most don’t have a clue about relationships… You do. Brovo!

Quote:sadbuttrueI met my girlfriend online 2 years and 2 months ago online on a forum. I had just been dumped by a girl and was feeling pretty low, and she helped cheer me up.At the time I thought that was such a sweet thing to do, and straight away I knew she was someone I would get on with well. She had a boyfriend but I developed a secret crush on her. We talked over IM for a while and even a couple of times on the phone. I would think about her quite a lot, with my share of guilt.Anyway she went through a bad patch back in September last year and I helped her through it. She realised her boyfriend wasn't who she should be with.I went to meet her at her parents house 160 miles away from home on the last day of September and from that very moment I knew that I wanted to be with her from then on. By this point I was already absolutely smitten with her, but meeting her in person sealed the deal for me and I knew that we would go well together.She was and is the most gorgeous, caring, sexy, loving and intelligent person I've ever met.I spent the next week stressing about her situation with her boyfriend, and she did leave him early October. I then stressed about whether she would want to be with me. I had massive self-confidence issues, and so couldn't understand why she would want to be with me. Turns out she felt the same!On October 19th, we had both decided that we couldn't hide our feelings anymore. She told me I shouldn't be single anymore, and I agreed :D....and that's how it has been since I love her so much and I have no doubts that I will be with her til the very end. She's going to be moving in in a couple of months time and I'm really excited about it!How do I know she's the one? It's the way she makes me feel. I feel comfortable with her. It 'fits'. It's like we've been together all our lives. I would do anything for her and I would be devastated if I lost her. I also love her parents to bits! what he said.... just from my perspective. lol

My girl had started getting riding coached from my mom when we were 14...close to being 15. I was dating her when she turned 15 and I did. Her birthday is just 10 days before mine. Yea she rubs it in that she’s 10 days older lol but she was scary. I ran and hid from her a lot. I was so shy she terrified me. But when she’d catch me outside she’d talk to me. It was more her talking and me nodding and looking for a run away escape. lol it was obvious I liked her. I’d stand in my window and watch mom coach her - watch Shannon ride. Ry got tired of me and pushed me into talking to her so we started talking more. We went on a date… and then more and we started dating . I had a bad crash on my bike and she’d come by my room when she got there for her lesson to see me. When her lesson was over she’d come sit with me in bed and we’d hold hands. I couldn’t get out of bed cuz I had burned my leg really bad and fucked my back pretty bad. She still brings over soup when I feel bad. We still just sit in the bed holding hands… lol It was kinda hard when I told her we were moving. We were going to try long distance and had made plans to meet half way for holidays and spring break and maybe some weekends… things were ok until her mom found out why I had been in the hospital. She broke up with me. It hurt but not anything like it did last spring. I found out Shannon never wanted to break up - it was her mom making her because of what I did. While I lived on the coast I didn’t ever talk to her. I saw her small amounts in the summer at a few big shows. I never really would talk to her tho cuz I thought she hated me. - plus I was dating laces. Then after Katrina we moved back. We were at a horse show in nov. and I saw her. We talked. We really talked. That weekend at that show we got back together. Been together since / now she’s my fiancé.

Aww, what a sweet thread. I'm getting the warm and fuzzies from reading. :smile:

If I weren't so tired, I'd share.

I took my kids home after a weekend at my house, I was driving the 40 miles home and decided I was hungry, I headed left instead of right so I could go find some food instead of picking up the freeway, she was walking down teh street, I know it was a few minutes after 7 on a sunday night, the last sunday of february, 2004. I pulled over and spent a long fucking time talking her into letting me give her a ride and buying her dinner since I was heading to get some food myself. gave her my phone number and email, dropped her off at her house, not a damned thing i could do to get her car working and let her drive to her house herself. (dead car is why she was out walking to begin with) Dinner lasted late, as did the conversation in my car in her driveway before she told me good night and went inside.I got home an hour later and already had an email from her telling me to call her and giving me her number. I got to bed far too late for someone that had to get up at 4 to get ready for work. I dragged ass all day the next day, caught a nap at lunch and called her as soon as i got off work. Been with her ever since.I pulled over to talk to her and get a look at her face, simply because she had on a leather coat that did not cover her ass, I saw that fanfuckingtastic ass and HAD to pull over and talk to its owner.

Adam and I actually met as a blind date through our barber. Adam came to my house and I remember opening my door to meet him for the first time and was floored at how much of a hottie he was, but that also made me feel very self-conscious! I remember the whole date thinking, “This boy is never going to call me back; he’s far too good looking!” We went out to dinner, than ended up at the local bar for a couple drinks and a few games of pool before we called it a night. We shook hands and parted ways. I called a good friend of mine telling him about the date and how much fun I had, but how I doubted Adam was going to call me back for a second date. Well the next day I got a call from Adam asking if I wanted to go out on another date. From about that time on we spent almost everyday together. We took things extremely slow though, we were together almost 3 months before we even held hands and kissed (which was hard for me because I’m a very touchy feely person!!)…. Though truthfully the same night we held hands and kissed, things progressed further lol We’ve been together 4 years this month! How time flies!

I was teaching a field class on NDN shit. My wife had to have a minority studies class for her major and she took the class I was teaching. When I first saw her I told a friend that she was mine. I asked her to come back for the dances after the class was complete and she did. I was to chickenshit to ask her out then. So about 6 months later we finally started going out. We've been married 11 years and have been together for 14 years... I think.

we met across a crowed AOL chatroom 14 years ago LMAO beware the interweb folks hahaha

I first saw my bf, in junior high (August 11,1995), we were in same class. It was his eyes and bright red lips that really got my attention.Though I liked him a lot a first sight and secretly wished he would be my friend but he actually turned out to be alongside my rivals in the class and he broke my bike, tore my books and pushed me so I would fall on other guys........stayed rivals for 2 years, then became friends, fell in love, had a fight-broke up for 1 yr, got back together again and been together since then.Well I was the first one to do everything from a kiss, hug, even undressing to taking him out and paying for his dinner and taxi.I always thought he was "the one" but he is really annoying me with his arrogant behavior. I dont live with him and no engagement or marriage yet......dont think there will ever be any "the one" in my life. I am still stitching together my broken heart's pieces and hoping it will be back in shape soon.