But as much as I get turned on about anything regarding.. um... "normal" sex whenever it comes to touching my own body I freak outMy bf said he had "plans" for me when he comes up to my college for the weekend but I honestly don't think I'm going to allow him to get any further than a hug and a kiss.
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Never thought the day would come
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You've been around A2A long enough to know you always need a condom around just in case you lose your rationality in the heat of the moment. You have to much potential to wind up pregnant.
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Originally Posted By: OldFolksYou've been around A2A long enough to know you always need a condom around just in case you lose your rationality in the heat of the moment. You have to much potential to wind up pregnant. Agreed!And if thats a pic of you Abi, you're just as pretty as I imagined Edit: And thankfully you know me and know I am gay so that doesn't sound nearly as creepy ROFL!
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aww thanks I don't think I'll be that stupid ha, but my problem is that he's been waiting a LONG time... and I told him you know.. I might not mind but now I feel like I just led him on because in all actuality I'm not going to let him go anywhere near my body...
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"I don't think I'll be that stupid ha,..."Believe us, it's not a matter of stupidity. It's a matter of hormones. Keep a condom around just in case.
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But don't feel that you have to do anything. Your boyfriend should be prepared to be patient.
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Abi, it sounds stupid but being comfortable with your own body makes being comfortable with someone else much easier. I think the first step here would be to figure out exactly what it is that bothers you and why.Once you've moved on from there and your ready to be with someone else, are your worries just about getting pregnant? Is it a trust issue you have with that person, or are you just flat out not ready for that responsibility.
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Yea, I kind of still have issues with my own body that I'm trying to deal with. I'm getting better... sorta. I'm alot better than I used to be but it takes a while.
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I think you should tell that you don't plan on anything sexual and whatever you are or are not working through, he should respect your desire to not have sex. Have you ever talked to him about not wanting to have sex? If so, does he take you serious? There's nothing cool about a guy still thinking he has a chance even after you've told him y'all aren't going to have sex.