I just got through watching a segment on "Nightline" about older virgins and the show on TLC called "Virgin Diaries". One comment the reporter said that bothered me was how the older virgins (over 30) have used their brain to override their bodies' urges. I feel so abnormal. I don't feel like my brain has to override anything or that I have to fight my urges. If anyone has read my other posts, I like not having to worry about birth control and getting pregnant. Also, I don't like sharing with people I'm not sure of, much more so since my last dating fiasco.So...I always think something is wrong with me. I don't think or have the same battle with "natural" urges other people have or I think they're having. I know I was supposed to not concentrate on getting in a relationship, but I always still think about it and it bothers me. What am I going to do when I have to man up and get on birth control and have sex. Ughhhh...being an adult sucks sometimes.
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Another Virgin Rant
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Urge is one pf body's biological feature. That means your still normal.
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...if I had those urges....
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Don't worry. You're definitely normal. Losing one's virginity is a life changing experience and it'll happen at the right time. Don't feel like you have to force it just to fit in and "be normal." Do it when you're ready.