My girlfriend of 1 and 1/2 years and I have been going through rough patches, but are still together.Yesterday I found out she made plans with a class mate to see a movie today.Basically she said to him "Yada yada and oh you should bring the weed cupcakes for when we see the movie tomorrow and we should eat them before the movie "I was unable to keep my cool and immediately after finding out I was like , Im leaving right now.She did not understand why I wanted to leave so she was insisting I tell her whats wrong.Against my better judgement I told her I found out she made plans with this other guy.She goes on and tells me oh it was a joke , i was just playing , I was making plans its not like I went outand actually did it. When I tried to tell her that making plans was just as bad and that she had the intention ofdoing it she said is it murder if you just planned it but didnt do it, I didnt think so.I know I screwed myself on this one I should have just never said anything and waited untill today in order to text her see if she would lie to me about what she was doing and see if I can catch her in the act of going to the movies with him, but I ruined that now.She told me she loves me and there is no other guy and yada yada , I need to trust her. I want to trust her really badly but she is always texting this guy and I just found out about her plans she was making behind my back. How can she love me if she is making plans behind my back and then blowing it off like it was all a joke when I find out and confront her?I love this girl so much and I dont know what to do, she has been texting me today and I took her to school this morning cause I spent the night at her house. She said she wants to hang out with me tonight and is apprently going to blow off or raincheck the plans she made with this other guy tonight...I have narrowed it down to 2 options cause as of this moment this is giving me severe anxiety and I have not been able to eat cause when I am upset I cant eat .Option 1: I chill with her for one last night and then bang her one last time to get her out of my system and make myself feel better that I ended this on my own terms after getting off.Option 2: I chill with her tonight, text that guy cause I have his phone # " guess what punk , my girlfriend bailed on you cause she has a boyfriend and she thinks your a creep so F-off" and Then send him a picture of my dick...and tell him "This is the dick thats been inside her for the last year and 1/2, hope you enjoy my dirty 2nds, oh wait you dont even get to have dirty 2nds cause Im hittin right now punk" Then I will continue my relationship with her and try to make things work with her. I know option 2 is crazy but this guys disrespect is making me really pissed off, although its more my gf fault cause she lacks the respect to not make plans with another guy behind my back, I will take it out on him an only him, I would never harm my gf. I want to make things work with her, but I cant continue if she continues to text him all the time, knowing that she had in the past made plans with him. The only way I can continue with her is if I make she this kid is out of the picture, by scaring him off.I would ask her to never talk to him again but she would only say thats not fair, I didnt do anything. Then I would continue with my life knowing this person is forever hatching schemes and she is playing with it cause either she is too naive or she really doesnt give a damn about me.
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My gf made plans to see movie with another guy..
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one more piece of fact she told me that he hits on her..
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He's interested, but the question is "Is she?" Keep your eyes and ears open, and your mouth shut.
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