I have sort of an odd situation. I'm a loner, yet I have some really popular friends. Let me explain. I'm a male and am going to be a junior in high school. Some of my friends are the most popular people in school and they always say I should come hang out with them more and go to parties and stuff. The hottest girl in school said that she wants to see me at more parties and start to hang out more when I was talking to her in school one day. Even though they say I should come hang out, I get too nervous to call anyone and usually end up sitting at home for the night. I dont know what's wrong with me!
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WHAT THE HELL AM I THINKING???
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Hard to tell, question, without knowing how nervous "too nervous" is. Is it something you feel you can overcome with effort (i.e. you just need motivation), or not?
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You are your biggest enemy, simply pick up the phone, just do it inspite your nerevousnes.Once someone on the other side picks up, you'll have no choice but to start talking and the rest is up to you.
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In reply to:
You are your biggest enemy
It may be nothing to do with the thread but that phrase there cleared up quite a few things in my head :smile:
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i was like that with talking to girls, you have one life to live, enjoy it. thats what i told myself.