wow he is def the "fake" kind. i cant believe i was so blind...i waited for him aLL SUMMER!!! i had opportunities to go out with another guy but i said no, because i thought he was waiting for me. wow i was sooo stupid lol. its just so weird tho to think he was never who i thought he was, i want to break it off with him completely but i feel like im going to be missing something out of my life, i mean, i liked talking to him, i liked knowing about his life, now its gonna be weird if i dont know whats going on in his life, should i still be friends with him? uhh he makes my head hurt... but the first time i met him it was just 2nd base, i didnt blow him right away...but i can see where all u guys are coming from with ur advice, you really helped me out alot thx now i know hooking up= broken heart= badddd lol but i wish i could just warn this new girl he has about him, i dont want her to get hurt how i did.
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What should i do??
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In reply to: should i still be friends with him? Well, I was friends with that one girl who said "sweet talkers are the worst" but we never had a relationship. I think it would be best to stay away from him since he can draw you in quite easily.You can probably warn that other girl, but chances are she won't listen. lol.Oh yeah, about liking him because he opened up to you and let you know what was happening in his life... that's part of the smooth talking. He's not the only one like that. I tend to open up to people so they can relate themselves to me. I open up to them, they open up to me, soon we're at an understanding and all good.Oh yeah, maybe you'll like someone from this thread. lol.http://www.afraidtoask.com/forums/showflat.php?Board=UBB14&Number=103497
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thx so much u guys for all ur help, i think ive learned alot from this expierence, ive grown alot, and realized you cant trust people, and cant believe everything they tell u... thx again! :grin:
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thats very sad when you cant trust aanyone but if thats the way you feel maybe some day youll become to trust a least one person who is closet to you.
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My best advice for not getting screwed over again - is try not to be so easy... At the VERY least a week... Although the longer you wait the easier it is to tell if the guy is with you for you, or to get a piece of ass.
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yes yes this is very tru....ive lived it, now ive learned it. no offense to any of the guys here, but i hate u boys lol. u make my head hurt
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Ah, the all guys are scum stage. I had to deal with that stage from someone yesterday as well. Don't worry, you'll change your mind. :wink:
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u guys i cant get over this guy, i cry over him all the time, i dont know what to do with my self anymore
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Here's an old thread I made a long time ago. Is it over the top? Maybe. But a lot of people have told me it really works.http://www.afraidtoask.com/forums/showflat.php?Cat=&Board=UBB14&Number=98407&page=9&view=collapsed&sb=5&o=&fpart=1
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hey guys i havent updated in while, but guess what, i have mOre problems with this guy. ok so i havent talked to him in like a month since all this happened. we would see eachother around campus and just smile and say hi. occationally he would IM me online and be like "remember me?" i was still a little hung up on him, but it was getting easier in a way. well, i knew he was hooking up with that other girl,and i dont know the whole story, but i think she wanted a relationship and he said no. so she was all upset that she wasted 2 months on him for nothing, so they supposedly hated eachother, and her heart was broken (just like i thought it would be). so then one day he IMs me and wants to be friends again. i know i should of just said screw you and not talk to him, but i was so excited, i missed him so much. so we met up for lunch one day and then went back to his room to watch a movie. usually when we watched a movie we would always hook up, but not this time. he stayed on one side of the room and i stayed on the other. as much as i wanted to hook up i new i shouldnt. so the next day, we talk and he asks my what i thought about the other day. we both agreed that it was awkward, and missed how things used to be. he wanted to know if we just hook up again, he said he felt like we were making progress (to what? i dunno, if he says hes not into relationships, but over the summer he told me he was) to i said i didnt know, we'll see what happens. im so confused though on what to do. i know i really shouldnt start hooking up again, but i just miss him so much. no one makes me feel the way he does when im around him. but also, i think hes back together with that other girl, i think they made up somehow. im a very jealous girl, i hate knowing hes with other girls. i guess a part of me still thinks hes gonna be mine, but i know he never will. anyone have any ideas? any responses would help thx