Im small!

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hey all women do not have to worry about breast size. Like Ineligible said, only a shallow guy would chose upon that. So just relax and jsut make sure you have good personality.

"It seems from your family that you are not going to stay flat, but you're just a bit later than most. But that is no reason at all why you shouldn't be able to have a boyfriend. Only a very shallow guy would select a girlfriend on breast size - and you wouldn't want him anyway." thats the bit I was talking about, just made me smile :grin:

I'm gonna let the gals in on a little secret, but you have to promise not to tell anyone I told you ok? ok! Self-confidence is THE most sexiest thing a man desires. Even if you have small breasts and your confident and outgoing and just willing to not even pay attention to your chest then that will make you 1000 times more attractive then if you just did have breasts.My girlfriend isn't exactly huge but she's so free spirited and fun to be with when she's around me that in my eyes she is simply the most beautiful creature God put in front of me... almost makes a heart ache at the thought! Just letting go and living life to it's fullest... thats sexy... not breast size... or ass size... or being skinny... it's about being you and loving life!

exactly. If a girl can be self confident it makes things all the better.

well how do I figure out what size I am? i mean, i cant exactly ask my friends/ family. i looked at the size and shape page but i still really am not sure. when will i need an "a" sized bra?

I was 32 aa when i was 15! I'm 19 and 34 B now and still not happy

ha! I wish!

can anyone answer my question, "how do I figure out what size I am? i mean, i cant exactly ask my friends/ family. i looked at the size and shape page but i still really am not sure. when will i need an "a" sized bra?" anyone? I know everyone said to just be self confident and try not to worrry about it-im young. its not as easy as it sounds. everyone calls me a nerd at my school. even my friends. some people call me a midget because im short. ive always been quiet and uncomfortable with my body. i cant exactly just all of a sudden be happy with what ive got. and i cant be confident because ive always been shy. and sure, some of the guys at my school arent jerks but they wont really talk to me. and even though i am only 13, im in highschool and about 97% of the girls in my grade are atleast an a cup. the guys on here say how size doesnt matter and only immature guys who think about size arent worth it anyways. but all i ever hear is about how size matters. i want to know how i can make my breasts grow faster and please stop saying to be more confident because I cant!

trust me i started deveopling at 9 yrsi thought i was going to be big boobed then they stayed the same till i was 13 yrs so i started thinking that they were going 2 b small i was mayb be a little upset i was like a 38 a then in the 9th grade they grew like whaaapannnggg lol ima 36 c now so i think u shoudlnt worry about it they'll grow plus ur mother nd sister have prett y nig boobz so yea

Once again Ineligible proves beat me to the same thing, wish my dad was like you sometimes lol. (Dad's superficial and a womanizer at times, thanks to my mom I didn't become like him.)Girls don't usually have sex at the age of 14 and if it is that is too young and a really bad time to do it, you are just beginning to get those feels and it can develope bad relationships with another person as they mature, girls that are 14 ish are usually still like children with developing bodies so relationships can be hard to form successfully.Sex is a big issue, don't think breast size will determine if you will ever have sex, look at Asian countries, they have all A-B tops usually, most are flat for a long period of time and you think guys aren't attracted to them? Personality and body language really hook guys, a warm and friendly personality and nice attitude really gets to me. The way a girl moves when you are around her also tells if she is shy or happy or how she is feeling.I personally fell in love with my gf before I even seen her face and when I did I was even more in love. She is A at the age of 18 now and knows I love every part about her, breast-size had absolutely 0 chance of making me feel any different about her. Don't worry you will develope later on for sure and if you don't get to be as large as your sister or mother who cares, plenty of guys love the small breasts to, but it really isn't the main thing for which most guys get interested in a girl. As Ineligible said you don't want guys that would choose by that.Guys choosing there girlfriends by breast-size is a sterotype, same with legs and butt, they are only add-ons which guys focus on, girls are very sensitive about their bodies and guys just give more attention that way rather then sounding corny and saying, "Wow your great, your personality what makes me like you." Its easier and sounds less of a line then, "Nice ". Guys love girls for who they are, not there bra size.

Don't let it bother you, there are guys out there who are looking for someone just like you. The sexiest girl I've known was small breasted and I let her get away. I may have another chance soon and I am going to go for it!

May be a silly question, and I'm only a man.The bra was designed to support the breasts and stop damage, stop stretching etc as there is no muscle there. If you are relatively small with little to support, why do you NEED a bra?Enjoy the freedom. I'm sure you still look great

i like girls that are smaller rather than larger and i like brunets and not blonds there are theses good guys out there and if they look at your chest and jusge you why won't them anyways i like a girl dtrictly on personality and its to bad the rest of the ppl in this world ain't like that i think the world would be great like that

ok...this is gonna sound bad, and probably not very helpful, but i hope to be helpful when writting it. I saw and endocrinologist yesterday...and it seems to me, that A: don't look towards your family for blue-prints on what you may come out to be. Yes, you have your parents gene's but, the "good" genes which you may hope to acquire, may have been recessive genes, which they got, tis the reason they may have large breasts, large penis' etc. so, don't rely on your parents looks to look for your own endowment. the fact that you're still in a training bra, is a concern for you, but that may be the way you'll stay, but, at your age, don't count on it. you're a small girl, 13 years of age, 5 feet. give it some years, if you still don't like the way you are, A: get over it, accept u; B: get implants ( wouldn't recommend it). And, for people who say the cliche, and seriously over-used line " blah blah, he/she is not worth your time" (i hate that line) you have to look at it from a different prespective. They may not be shallow, but may just be looking at virility, and are trying to find the strongest possible genes to carry on in their offspring. tis a primative instinct, but tis also a strong one. Just think, if everyone was naked, would you as a girl - without talking to a single guy, look as his small penis and decide he's a good candidate for you? or would you look at the guy next to him with the 5 inch limp penis? since it's easier to see a girl's breasts through the shirt, then it is for a girl to see a guys penis (not including gymnasts, or swimmers) the guy can look at the girl, and say, she has good sized breasts, she's a healthy candidate. This is all from a long distance prespective, without even talking to the person...However, if they make fun of you, then they're just childish, star. And, since you're in the 9 th grade, and i'm willing to bet that many of the guys' penis' haven't even begun to grow, don't worry about thangs...just think that, yeah, ok, your breasts may be small, but so are they guys' cocks that are making fun of you. trust me, it's devastating to hear you have a tiny penis - as i am a guy, and would never like to hear that.

Hey don't worry about it! I dont know about any other guys but i'm quite attracted 2 da gals wiv small breasts! I'm sure there r ova ppl like me!

I am a male and was shopping today. This female shop assistant helped me and I guess she must have been between 17 - 19 years old. Her tits were so so tiny. She did not have a bra on and I got a peek down her top when she leaned forward. Her tiny tits were so perky with the most beatiful areolas and nipples. Yep... tiny small tits... what a turn on ! If you are a girl out there with tiny small tits be happy because there are males out there that really like tits like that.

You went shopping before 8:30 this morning? I think what you do is really sick.

Why is what I did really sick especially in comparison to what other people write on these posts ? I mean... you seem to be saying that looking down a top is sick. Are you for real ? If you are... what about all the other posts from other people and all the sick things that they are into ?

Looking down someone's shirt is an invasion of privacy. You seem to hunt out young girls for the purpose of doing exactly that. To me that's sick.

You have got to be jokin Amanda. I have read post on here where people are looking up their teaches dresses, incest, wanting to pee on people, masturbating in public places etc and you think what I do is sick. You think a girl 17 - 19 is young ? get real. Why do you not tell all those other people that what they are doing is sick !