OK. so - a few problems/questions:1. I'm losing my erection, having difficulty getting one (ie. remaining 'fat' but not hard) and sometimes getting no reponse at all. Most commonly my girlfriend will hump me when i'm semi hard and this is uncomfortable because i'm uncut and a little sore quite often (i've stretched) because (a) it's sensetive (b) foreskin is not fun for beginners and (c) she waxes and sometimes it's a little prickly. 2. Sometimes she takes me in her mouth or hand when i'm not hard and i get self conscious because i'm worried about what we're both thinking as a consequence of this. 3. Condoms are horrible, i can't put one on myself... i've tried with about 3 or 4 alone. I have trouble rolling it down.... it just doesn't work. i can't get it all the way down. I'm not sure if this is because of girth... i'm quite wide but pretty small in length - anyway, she can get it on for me. but i often lose my hard-on, and we like to do it in missionary so her putting it on then turning around and me getting on top of her etc etc. is a real interuption and i'm already self conscious so there's a hardon GONE GONE GONE! in summary, any tips? Get a new cock maybe?Cheers for reading if you got this far. P.S by the way she won't go on the pill because it messes with her head and she loses a lot of sex drive too. P.P.S I think other forms of contraception (spermacide, female condom) are uneasing/unsettling... any other tips?
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Losing hard-on, Condom trouble
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I was watching the Sunday Night Sex Show last night and there was mention of the female condom. Since she(your gf) isn't on BC and you have such trouble with condoms, it might be worth it to possibly give is a try(the female condom). Sue (the woman on the show) also suggested to one woman that when her bf even just wants to masturbate, that he use a condom to get him used to the idea (he would get soft just as you do). In other words, no condom, no masturbating. I think any guy could get used to them quick if that was the case, don't you?
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Well I know of a pill being developed for guys, it doesn't sound 99.6% sure to prevent possible conception or give the same protection of a condom, thing is that condoms protect from STD's and conception. First time I tried with condoms, I did 2 to practice before and I hated it, it smelled funny and was annoying. It didn't feel the same anymore and was so hard to keep up. I REALLY hate to wear them, but I will for my girl (also with other preventions). I am also personnaly against the BC pill, it messes with a woman's hormones and can cause some health risks, head aches can be one, but if missing just one or two pills means that it will not work always. The guy one will just play a trick on the body so that you ejaculate with no semen being drawn and thus no baby. Face it....a latex condom for guys is the one thing you can learn how to do to protect both yourself and your partner from STD's and babies. Though don't look at all condoms the same, some have little 'pleasure meshes' in them that cause a girl to 'feel it' more and make it a better experience.Follow Aisy's advice about the condom thing, but I would stop after you get used to it both ways, walking into the drug store every 5-6 days and buying a box gets expensive. Another reason is that guys are afraid to buy them, if there is a girl at the counter you might wonder what she's thinking, "Oh not another guy, going to go fuck his girl again..." chances are that is not what they are thinking, usually its nothing because they see it alot and if your younger sometimes they'll think just how mature you are to be putting your pleasure behind the protection of your partner. So there's nothing to be embarrassed about.
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yeah but ive heard that using a female condon is like haveing sex with a plastic bag
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First off yes condoms are tight they are supposed to be. Now staying with that subject a condom will sctually strech and fit over a persons head. So what you are telling me is that your dick is like as big around as a persons head??? I think not. You must be doing something wrong. Next staying hard can be tough for anyone. Its not like you start making out with a girl, and get a huge erection that never goes away. I think the problem is with you. Its not bad or anything you just need to make sure you are relaxed and totally in the mood. And for gods sake if you sit there and worry about not being able to get hard your prolly not going to.
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It's true that a condom can stretch to cover a penis of any width, but the wider the penis, the tighter it will be. Too tight is uncomfortable and makes it more difficult to stay erect, because the pressure exerted by the condom opposes the blood pressure in the penis. That's why condoms are available in different sizes. People with thin penises need a slimmer condom so it isn't too loose (with danger of it coming off); people with thick penises need a wider condom like the Magnum or Large (or even the Magnum XL which is even wider) so it isn't too tight. The length isn't important - they are all much the same length. Chief shouldn't be afraid to try a large size if he is thicker than average.