I have this girl that I am really into lately. Well, just today I finally got the nerve to ask her out "oficially". We had hung around a lot, but never on a official date. Her answer totally took me by surprise. She said that Friday night she was going out with another guy (a guy I know, but no one I am friends with). Well, she gave me this look and said that she would love me to come with them. She said that she would love to have a three-some with two guys. She said "it would be so hot". I thought she was just playing around. But then she asked me if I seriously would do a three-some with her and him?I didn't know what to say. Never really thought about it. Never been interested in guys before. But for some reason the thought of a three-some with her and a dude kind of does turn me on. So now I am confused. Does that mean I might be bi? I always thought I was str8. What should I do? I didn't answer her cause I wasn't sure if she was for real or not. Help!
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Help! What should I do? Two guys & a girl...
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no you can be straight and have a threesome. Having a threesome with a girl and two guys does not mean you are going to have sex with the guy. I would say that if you are comfortable with it and it something you want to do, then do it.
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Sounds fine to me, bro. Theres no need to get physical with the guy during the threesome. Just do your thing with the girl and have fun!
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I agree it doesn't necessarily mean you are any more bi than everyone else; but threesomes are often in the end a disaster. Jealousy rears its ugly head, even when it is not expected.
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Id say that you found urself a girl who is VERY in touch with her sexuality. I would do it if i were you, especially if your interested in doin the whole 2 girl thing, cuz chances are if shes game for 2 guys she will hook u up the other way
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In reply to:especially if your interested in doin the whole 2 girl thing, cuz chances are if shes game for 2 guys Honestly, what scares me the most is right now I am more turned on by the thought of doing this with her and a guy. I don't know what he is thinking, or even if she mentioned it to him. But I can't say I wouldn't be up for even doing things with him too (mainly touching only). But at the same time, I am lke... WHAT THE HELL AM I THINKING?!?! I like girls. Why all of a sudden am I even considering this? What is wrong with me?
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It's something new, something different, something you've never experienced before that probaby feels good. That in itself has appeal. Personally, I wouldn't do it because I like being highly intimate with one woman.If you like guys and you want to have a romantic relationship with them, then that makes you gay or bi. Otherwise, don't confuse yourself with this.
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Nothing is wrong with you, everyone has there own things that they find attactive and if doing a girl with another guy is what turns you on then thats cool.
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I have been thinking about this a lot lately. Thanks for everyone writing. I talked with her again last night. Turns out she is serious. She said that he is willing to do this too. So I think I am gonna just see what happens. What is the worst that could happen? It could rock, or I would find out that it is not my thing. Then I will know. I just think I might regret not trying it though. I will keep you all posted if you want.
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Yea man, go for it. How often will you get an opportunity like that? I wanna hear what happens, so keep on postin
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ok... my big night has happened. This morning I am confused, but ok with that. For now. I definately think that I may be bi cause stuff happened lastnight with both the girl and guy, and you know what? it wasn't all that bad. Actually kind of liked it. Was not what I expected. I won't go into all the details since this isn't a porn site. lol Does fooling around with a guy once make you bi? I kind of do want to try that again. I was really nervous at first, but it turned out all good. And just in case anyone is wondering... NO... I didn't do EVERYTHING with the guy. Just some stuff. The girl was definately the main attraction. lol So I KNOW I am NOT gay. I am still interested in going out with her, but I don't know if she likes me or the other guy. I don't know if I should wait to ask her out, or do it now. I don't know if she still will want to do 3somes if we are dating. So I sitll have some unanswered questions, and some news ones. I have head to the shower now, I will chat more later...
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In order to better understand, I'm going to need some details. What exactly did you do with the guy? Chances are though if you liked playing with both your probably bi, but thats something that only you can decide. It could have just been in the passion of the moment. I'm glad you had fun! In regaurd to going out with her... I dont know if that is the best idea. A girl like that most likely isnt the type of girl to stay faithful, but I guess if your just looking for a fun relationship then go for it. lemme know what you would want from going out with her, or what it would intail.
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A serious relationship with this girl probably won't happen, but I guess she'd be a good friend with benefits.
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No, simply experimenting with this guy one time and enjoying it or being willing to do so again doesn't make you bi. You're curious and it was OK. You'll know if you become interested in sexual stuff with both genders....and when you reach that decision, then you can consider yourself bi. Too much is made of these "mandatory" decisions placed on us by society. I see it as curiousity, nothing more.