Grrrrr! This is making me FURIOUS!! I've been going out with the same guy for almost 2 years now, and I keep hearing the same 'ol crap from these random people. I swear, random people IM me on AOL Instant Messenger, telling me these random things about my boyfried. (Obviously, it's all bad) they always say hes slept with another girl, or cheated on me, or hung out with another girl and held onto her hand....ect... Our relationship has been great, nothing has gone wrong, and we've always been honest to one another. I hate all these people that keep rambling on about him when I know it's not true. I always confront him about it, and we alwasy end up figureing out that this person wants to break us up. I ABSOLUTLY HATE PEOPLE THAT GET IN THE MIDDL OF OUR RELATIONSHIP!! It bugs me that they do this!!I need to vent, sorry if I went on to much, but I need to get this out!
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The Outsiders.... stupid mother @*$&%#!!!!
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Alot of times there will always be people meddling in relationships. It's inevitable. If you truly trust him and he trusts you, just block these people immediatly when they IM you or set your AIM preference to "only allow people on my buddylist to send me a message" to avoid it completely. Still being together after all these meddlers shows you two are strong and if the trust is there, nothing can break you too. Stay strong.
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I wonder if these "random people" are all the same person, perhaps an ex-gf or a wannabe gf?
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That would make sense, it sounds something like that. But as WeirdGirly said, if you trust him then ignore what they say, you can always report them if they keep harassing you with all that.But keep your head up and make sure you focus on you and your bf not what other people are saying.By the way have you been getting told all this the whole 2 years you 2 have been going out?
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Yeah, but these "random people" are all his ex-girl friend's friends, or some people that barely know him. I dunno, t jsuts pisses me off that they do that.
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yes, but it mainly started after our 1 year anniversary...
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I understand if you don't wanna say but what are some of the things these people say about your boyfriend?
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Oops my mistake! You already said lol Well basically there isn't much that can be done except ignore them, from the sounds of things you two are strong and you can get through this, even though you are both getting hurt in the process.
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Stuff like this led to an argument that almost split me and my girl up. I heard so much about what she "did" last year...i taked to her about it and even confirmed it with 2 of her best friends...it was all a lie. The girl who told me that shit was so disappointed, and she even got her neighbor into it. Stupid a holes... Nothing will ever get inbetween my girl and me.. NOTHING!!Serenity Fox, this is the point where you just scream "FUCK THE FUCKING FUCKERS", block all their AIM Screen names, and move on and be happy with your boyfriend...always works for me.