Who would you date guys/girls?

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Who would you rather date? A heavy girl/guy, or a skinny girl/guy? And why?Just wondering ^_^

CAn we pick somewhere in between?? In reality, I wouldn't care if I really liked the person.

Well my husband has put on some weight, like 25 pounds since we started dating and I couldn't care less. That makes him 6'3" 220lbs. So which ever category that puts him in is the category I'd pick.

If they're a little heavier it doesn't really matter. I would not want an overweight guy though. My boyfriend is pretty fit, and I really like that!

I'm just asking if some people prefer stick figures to some one who has a little more 'cushion'. To me, it doesn't matter what the person looked like because I don't think size makes you 'you.' I go by personality, I mean if you've got an ugly personality, then you look ugly to me (and I don't care if you're the hottest guy or girl on the earth). Your personality is what makes you or breaks you... at least thats what I believe. I was just wondering what ya'll prefer. What ya'll believe

That sorta thing has pretty much ZERO influence on who I'd like to be with as a partner. At least in terms of being with them.When it comes to physical intimacy, I may find myself preferring "chunkier" girls. In fact I've found myself being more attracted to the larger figured girl recently.I think this is down to an underlying fear that I may break a skinnier girl in half due my my build and strength. Not wanting to brag, I'm something of a male powerhouse (I don't look stunning, but I am very strong) and I'm built like a tank.One of my female friends is about as petite as they come, and she's almost dangerously skinny, and I just couldn't picture myself doing that sorta thing to her cos I don't see how it would physically work!But then I guess that's part of the fun!

Lol ok sadbuttrue! :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye: If you love someone, you love them no matter what they look like. But dating... I dunno, I don't think it would bother me too much if I liked them. But in terms of looks, I prefer 'thinner' but hey it don't really matter.

I must say I like thin girls. I mean, I don't like twigs that have ribs that stick out. I just don't think I could feel too intimate with a "bigger" girl. There's just something about wrapping your arms around eachother.. and I like to feel her within my arms, smaller, more delicate, and beautiful.. Protecting her. I'm currently dating a girl that isn't that skinny, but isn't overweight. She's got a little cushin', but hey, bein' in love, I don't really mind. As long as she fits in my arms, I'm happy.Wow, I rambled a little too deep into myself there. hah.

well.. i know i like a guy who is kinda built.. with wide shoulders.. but i definetly like a thicker guy.. with a lil tub and such.. but not the rolls where u can see it through the shirt.. Fit is good.. my ex bf was like.. perfect but a asshole

i cant stand bony guys. i also dont like the thought of 5oo pound guys. how about...not "fat" but...kinda chubby...?

I also like the idea of having a guy with some "cushion". I'm pretty petite and very thin myself, and when I wrap myself in a guy who's alittle on the bigger side, I feel warm and protected by him.

Well, hey ladies

I don't care about skinny or slightly plump or whatever but healthy.No, I don't like aenorexic and bony unrealistic models or Wal-Mart extreme tubbies riding the electric carts. My wife is Russian, thin and to-die-for- looks but what I find the most attractive is her personality. You gotta live with the person!

I have to admit I do like guys a little on the big side myself because well... I guess they make feel protected. My ex is skin and bones and believe me, I'm not skinny at all (well maybe my ear lobes are, but thats not saying much lol). I always kind of felt like it would be me having to protect him lol. But really its more personality for me. If you don't have a good personality, then it's not going to work. My ex was great at first, but then he just went south and turned into an asshole. Personality makes or breaks you with me.