I was wondering... what helps you guys move on from someone you loved? It is so hard for me right now... not an hour passes by that I dont think of this person, I also sometimes have trouble sleeping.. thx
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How to move on quickly...
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you cant just instantly get over someone.. it takes time
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In reply to: what helps you guys move on from someone you loved? time
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Omg im gonna go retarded from sleep loss or something, whatever i do or try to do I think of her...why does it hurt so much.. i cant shake this feeling Sorry if i sound like a dumbass...
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In reply to: Sorry if i sound like a dumbass... Nah course you don't, i'm in the same situation actually, thing is it's been a year since I basically got turned down from someone and still now it's getting to me, I have trouble sleeping, whether it's because of this I don't know + yer, I think about her alot. I'm not sure how to get over her, another problem is that, we are really good mates she is always there because she is friends with my friends (we just like a big group) I guess it's just a matter of how much you love/like/etc. This person as to how long it will take. What happened, I mean, why are you in this situation, if you don't mind me asking.
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Read a scientific journal on applied physics.
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There's never a fast way to get over someone. Now, there's two things you can do right now.1. You can mope around, crank up the tunes, and stay locked up in your room. (I've done this too many times to count)or 2., you can do what might actually help. Get out there. Meet people, see people. Kepp on living your life. Maybe you'll find another undeniable attraction to someone.
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im in the same situation right now, i cant get over this guy who i thought was going to ask me out, but it turns out he left me for another girl. hes ALL i think about 24/7. its really hard some days and i cry too much over him, i know that time will eventually heal all but u just have to keep yourself busy until then.
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I'm always the one that leaves. And I don't leave until I'm completely done with the relationship.While it makes me seem like I move on quickly, it's taken a while to get to the point of leaving.
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it is hard, and it will take time. try still being friends with this person. it helps if you still talk to eachother..well at least it does for me. talk about how your lives are now that your apart. this way, you also stay friends with all your ex's. i still do it. its nice to be able to hear how their new life is. thats about all i can say. thats all i have ever done...it always worked...sorry about how you are feeling though. hope you feel better soon.
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Don't try to be friends just yet. It's the worst thing you can do right now and will only extend the hurt. Friends later but not now. I know it sounds crass but you need to build a wall and steel yourself, from any further intrusions of her previous involvements with you. It's okay to remember the good times and appreciate her for the times you two had. She is a good person and so are you. The grieving process is very tough but you'll get over it. Now, deal with it! You'll survive.
