ok well my friend met this guy. and they hit it off. and they started talking a lot. but this guy is shy and stuff. and he doesn't acually talk to many girls. and she is really falling hard for this kid. and she doesn't know what to do because she knows he won't have feelings for her. but she wants him to. and she just wants to be with this guy. but he doesn't like getting involved. and she has no idea what to do. any idea's?
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Hopelessly in love
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wow..i;m in similar situation..no idea what to tell you
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you can't make someone else like you or have feeling for you, all you can do is be upfront and honest about yours, and see what happens.
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I agree with angel on everything except, In reply to: or waiting and hoping he feels something for her. She cant wait around because you dont know how long she'll be waiting for. Life is to short to wait around for anyone so i say just go for it
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I didn't mean wait a long time - god i so agree life is WAY too short
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well face it, as long as the guy has the looks then nothing else matters.
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there is this little thing called personality that goes a long way. god, you act like everyone in this world is superficial.
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and without this little thing called 'looks' the whole situation wouldnt even have happened.
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That is so not true! Get off you're "oh woe is me" kick and look around you, not every person in this world is shallow or superfical. There are people who actually look deeper then looks, some people actually want someone with a personality. I'd rather have a guy who isn't the best looking with an amazing mind and personality than a guy who is nothing but eye candy. Personality makes or breaks you my friend, it's not always about the looks.