Emberrassed about sexual things...

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Okay, I've kind of sorta given a hand job before... not really sure how to exlpain it, but I started giving an ex of mine one but I had to stop because I got emberrassed about it. How can I keep from doing that? I mean I get emberrassed about sexual things all the time and I don't know how to keep from doing that lol I'm tired of freaken out over stuff like that, somebody please help me ^_^

Well, why was it embarassing? Was he making some weird noises or something? :smirk:

repeated exposure!
sure it sounds like I'm beeing cheaky but I mean it. Watch porn, try things, your shyness will have no choice but to surrender and you will end up with an envyable sex life.
I used to be shy. People who know me now don't believe that I could have ever been shy

Katie,You have absolutely nothing to be embarrassed about! It's not like you are on TV or anything (unless you are Paris Hilton). Just have fun, do what comes natural and "let it all hang out". If he is around your age, it probably doesn't take a superhuman effort to make him cum, so I am sure he will be very happy with whatever you do. No inhibitions - Enjoy yourself!

Well I don't know what it is about being close to a person in a sexual way, but I freeze up and I get nervous. I hate it, it's almost like I'm embarrassed that that I'll do something wrong and make the person I'm doing 'something' with will get turned off and that'll be it. It's just so confussing and I wish I could get over it

mabey to relax you, You should be the one being pleased rather than you trying to give a blow job or a hand job. then you will come to undertand it more and all thenu can give a bit back.

Yeah, and as Skinnerguy said, if you're doing this stuff with guys your age, you'd have to SERIOUSLY fuck up to turn him off. And if you do, I'm sure he can be turned on again just like that clicks fingers

hand jobs are easy, nothing to be embarrased about.

katie: you have everything to be embarrased about. your lack of experience is staggering, i really think you should consider a nice big orgie with you being filled out by 5 guys.

LOL filled out like an application eh?

Sorry Last, that's your fantasy, not mine.

if your going to give it to him,its not embarrassing,guys like it all the time,just take it slow

try letting him play with you until you get more used to it...that way you can both have fun

Katie, I go thru the same stuff! I hate it! if you'd like to talk message me =)

hey i think the first time you start getting sexual, its daunting but when you turn someone on for the first time its satisfying that you know you can make someone feel like that, its quite nice ;-)

As others have said, relax and don't worry about it. He's a guy, so he will probably enjoy anything you do that involves his penis.Also, some of this may have to do with your upbringing. If you were taught to believe that sex is "bad" and "wrong", it may take a while for you unlearn that.

Sis, try doing something like giving your guy a hand job in the dark, that way you won't be as embarrassed. Is some of the embarrassment caused by the fact that you think your not doing it right or something like that? Cos if it is beleive me, there is little you can do wrong, except maybe be a bit rough - for guys that are cut - if you move your hand up and down his cock gently but firmly, stroking him slowly at first that you will be able to take your cues from him, his breathing, moans etc.........oh and try wetting a finger of the free hand, and using his pre-cum to make your finger glide over the head of his cock, or if he is a heavy pre-cummer then the the flat palm of your hand......when you have his hard cock in your hand you have the power girl grin almost anything you do with it, as the guys said will please him.