1)I used to think I had phimosis, which is a tight foreskin, right? Anyway, I noticed my frenulum and it looks really small. I mean I dk how long they are supposed to be, but I am thinking that this is the problem with me being unable to pull my foreskin back when erect. *Note, when I do, my penis turns purple...is it my frenulum, and if so, how do I fix it?2) When uncut people ejaculate, should it shoot out like a cut man? Mine doesn't. It just kind of dribbles out unless I pull my skin slightly back. Is that normal?3) When having sex with a condom, since I am having trouble pulling my skin back, is it ok to leave the foreskin out instead of over the head? Will that cause the condom to fall off/tear or will I lose any sexual pleasure/hurt my girlfriend? 4) When I pee, I try to pull the foreskin back, and for some reason, when I do it this way, I piss and it sort of goes two different ways. Don't laugh.......i mean 80% of it goes straight, but like 20% of it will land like 5/6 inches away, making it very difficult to aim. Also, I notice a few drops that just drop right out of my penis and land right infront of me. Is there a problem with my p hole or is it something with my frenulum/foreskin? Thank you so much for the help.
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same here... im 14 and i never really had a father. i just heard about the pulling skin back a couple days back. how do i do it. if possible could someone take a video and show me how its done. in shower do u pull skin back and wash ur penis with a sponge under the skin? it feels weird when i even touch it. ill do it but i wanna know if thats how to do it, i wouldn't like to break it. and i have the same problem when i cum.. it just dribbles down and i also have same problem when peeing.. everytime i pee i have to clean with toilet paper around the toilet becuz i cant aim correctly.. PLEASE HELP!
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- If your frenulum is too short, it will pull your head back at the underside when you try to pull the foreskin back. If your foreskin is too tight, the pressure will be all around the front of the head. A short frenulum can be stretched.2. Usually when an uncut man ejaculates, his head is uncovered and so it's exactly the same as a cut man. Some people spurt out, and some dribble out, regardless of circumcision status.3. It's possible to use a condom with the skin over the head if it won't go back. You won't hurt your girlfriend, but you will get less sensation.4. It may have to do with the shape of the hole, or it may be the result of force on the head because of your difficulty in pulling the skin back.
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Luis, welcome to A2A. About retraction, have a look at these pictures and see if that helps.In reply to:in shower do u pull skin back and wash ur penis with a sponge under the skin? it feels weird when i even touch it.That's the right way to do it. The feeling will get less intense with practice.
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yea thanks its just that i grew up with my mom and a step dad and they didn't teach me anything about it.. every time i pee i try to pull it back to get use to it... also when i shower do i just shower my dicks head when i pull the skin back with water or do i like put soap.. and how do i put the soap if u do.. do u just grab the soap bar and go around the head or with my hands or with a sponge???
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I'm not big on sponges in general. Bacteria love to grow in them. Plus their roughness can irritate sensitive areas. There's no need to make a big ritual out of it; using your hands is fine.