Love?

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Hi this is my first post! wow. Anyway what you think of this... Im 20 and have never really wanted a girlfriend. just not been something ive wanted in the past. Everytime I've got a girlfriend ive always wanted to go out and hang around with my mates instead really. Well anyway recently me and my best friends sister have started to really get on well. We've always been close to each other and shes always liked me but never saw her like that, but recently when we're having a laugh in town or whatever, the feelings i get for her are crazy. and she (embarrased) turns me on so easily, just holding hands as a mess around or when we are play fighting and no one has ever done that 2 me before. And even now when i go out to clubs and get with girls theres nothing. So basically why does this girl do so much for me and why is she the only girl to do this for me? thanks Sorry if its a boring topic just something thats been bugging me.

It's actually simple. You love her and she loves you. You actually pointed this solution out yourself. If she's the only one making you feel this way then she's obviously the one you love.

It sounds like you really like this girl, have real feelings for her. That could be a good reason why other girls do nothing for you but this girl gets you all excited. Take that as a good thing.

You should talk to this girl about it and see what happens. Sounds likes you as well, so nothing is really holding you back. :grin:

Well I cant do anything because shes 15 so obviously im not going to go near her. we have spoken and shes told me shes crazy about me. (Even told her mum that she loves me, her mum told me that, though im sure thats just her age talking there) So the annoying thing is that i cant seem to find anyone else who i like, like i like her. so what am i going to do for next few years!

But its like everytime i see her then its like i fall in love with her everytime. Any one else had this, your just shocked at their beauty everytime?

Okay yeah.. her only being 15 is a big problem, sorry dind't realize she was 15.You have yourself in a interesting situation. best I can say is to keep your distance from anything romantic, but remain friends. Who knows years down the road something great might blossom.Just be careful not to get yourself into any legal issues if you know what I mean.

Lol, wow bud. I think you left out that one little detail of her being 15. Include all the info. I suggest you wait then or find someone else around your age.

Oh yeah i know i wouldnt go near here, told her that. im 20, so ill act like 20. she does mean the world to me and its kinda annoying cos i dont want to take away her teens. i mean like when she starts going out to clubs and that shes not gonna want a bf. so ill probably have to wait quite a few years until nething happens. funny really because everyone skits us, saying whens the wedding etc. When she gets bf's kinda makes me jelous but not too bad cos i know we cant go out with each other so cant stop her from seeing other ppl.

if u like her that much get to know her better and wait.

Ive known her for 15yrs sinse she was born, i was only 6 like but still... We're best mates. i am going to wait, besides shes going out with someone now. sinse yesterday. so we'll probably not see that much of each other now. i think im actually starting to like someone else. which is a first !! only problem with that is its her best friend!

wow! what a dilemma. once you finally start liking chics, and getting to know em, you'll be better off.