My girlfriend and i have had sex a few times before and i always fingered her to loosen her up, especially since those were her first times having sex(mine too.). A few days ago I wondered if you always have to loosen the girl up before sex so she doesn't feel pain. My girlfriend thinks that you don't unless she's new to sex.
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Is foreplay always necessary?
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When the female becomes stimulated, the "space" opens up more, and can more easily take the penis, if tightness is a problem. Foreplay helps in that department. In fact, some sort of foreplay is pretty much a requirement for most women (for getting in the mood and starting lubrication).
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In reply to: is foreplay always necessary? YES Foreplay is an essential part of sex and can include a lot of things starting with kissing. It is what causes a buildup to the rush that occurs with orgasm. If you didn't include foreplay, what would you do? Just penetrate, pump, cum, and then get dressed? I think if you did that with most women it would make you a one-timer with them.
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Obviously foreplay is deemed as vital for your relationship etc, but if you AND your girlfriend just wanted a 'quickie' I don't think there is any problem in you just going for it, as long as she's well lubricated/it doesn't hurt her...
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well it really depends. Like mentioned before, for a quickie, none is necessary. If both of you are as horny as freaking bulls in heat, then none then too. But usually, forplay is a good way to get the lubrication flowing and the mood steamy!
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You always need some form of foreplay.
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okay that's what i wanted to know. thanks
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Lengthy foreplay is as enjoyable as intercourse. That is if you have an emotional attachment to the person. Foreplay starts the minute that I see her and includes things like eye contact, holding hands, stroking her hair, rubbing her back, massaging her feet and talking. There are times of the month that quickies are ok but the foreplay displays to her that she is much more than a receptacle. You have to work that out with her. If its acceptable to her and you can live with it then its right for both of you. Animals generally don't have foreplay. Masturbation would be as pleasurable to me as having intercourse without the emotional attachment and removing the foreplay.
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With my boyfriend on my first time, he went down on me first, which suprised me and then we inserted himself. He had figured me in the past but no on my first time. he often doesnt. I would say you dont have to because well he never had to with me, but given each person is different, and also I had always masterabated since I was young so I may have already been prepared for it.