What the hell i'm 17 and have still yet to have a girlfriend what the hell is my problem. I don't understand why no damn girls are interested in me... I am told I'm fairly attractive, I can make people laugh, I'm in great physical shape, my social life is fairly busy but I cannot find a single damn girl that is interested in me for more then a friend and its really beginning to piss me off. I finally thought i found someone i really connected with, thought she shared mutual attraction with me, same sense of humor same interests, but no, she goes off and has sex with one of my best friends instead. I just don't understand this. I can make them laugh and have fun and make myself enjoyable to be with them, but still no interest for nothing more then a friend while everyone else goes up to a girl and just says "wanna make out" or "wanna go have sex" and they just go and get it.I just don't get this shit, I've tried being all nice and emotionally understanding, that didn't work, I've tried being funny and enjoyable to be with, nope, still nothing, tried and i even tried the shallow end of perfecting my phyiscal appearance through working out like a mad man and still nothing...What the hell do woman want? How can everyone else just snap their fingers and have women like that, while i work and work to win them over and nothing!!!!???
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Women I just can't figure em out
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Dude sounds like your trying to be the friend lol. If all you want is sex then try what your friends are doing, or just find another girl and just connect with her and let her know if you have feelings for her early so she doesnt see you as just a friend(which sucks if you want more then to be a friend but she doesnt)
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I was thinking...maybe its my interests... I live in the biggest hockey loving hick town in Canada where everyone is a hockey player/skater/ or pot head while i play basketball and listen to rap music...could this be a reason why no one in this useless hole of town has interest in me?
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mm maybe lol i think you should move to my town you would fit right in haha. Well maybe dont show your interests as much at first untill the girl falls for you then most likely she wouldnt care
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a friend while everyone else goes up to a girl and just says "wanna make out" or "wanna go have sex" and they just go and get itYeah, what football said. You tried a bunch of stuff, but you didn't try what your friend did. I don't mean that you should walk up to a girl and ask her if she wants to screw, but if you get stuck in the "friend" classification, you're done. The girl you're interested in needs to know that you are romantically interested in her. You can't be too shy about it.Basketball or hockey, what's the difference, unless you're trying to date a girl who's on a team?
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Your name is appropriate if a few of the regs read through this thread. Shit just go play them, it is easy, the hard part is being more than that.
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It sounds like he's already a stand-up guy...but he wants to have a romantic relationship.
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true true...just gotta be yourself then.
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Beign urself is key or maybe its becasue ur not accualy funny and attractive and ur just really cocky.
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Sometimes cocky guys are cute.
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Just be yourself, don't try so hard to get a girl, just wait a while and she'll come to you. Have a bit of confidence in yourself, girls like that in a guy.
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shit..you are being so tuff on yourself and your not being true to yourself coz ur changing for a chik..i mean you wrote 4 examples but all girls want is the real you...dont change for people....it only happens to the best of us but trust me when you do get a girl that really loves you for you ..you will appriate it so much more! srsly im 15 but female and i have the same prob!