is there anyway i can make myself stop getting so wet? ive read in a couple posts that guys think its a good thing and all that but its kind of a pain in the ass sometimes! lol i get wet even when im just talkin to my boyfriend.. it takes little or nothing at all to start it.. and by the time we get started doing anything im extremely wet.. it doesnt help the condom stayin on and he doesnt want to go down on me because of it.. so is there a way i can not stop it but lessen it?
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Can i stop this?
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It's not like a faucet, where you can just turn the valve. I don't see how you can lessen it. How do you know you get that much wetter than anyone else?
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im not saying that i get wetter than anyone else im jus saying i would like to know a way to control it
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I don't think there's a way, unless you can get yourself to be less stimulated. Is this really a boyfriend issue?
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no i dont think its an issue with my boyfriend.. its kind of like i am getting wet without being turned on.. and then when i do get turned on its ridiculous and during sex instead of making things better it just makes them more difficult
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Not sure what to tell you, but panty shields are a way to deal with it when you're not having sex.I was getting at the issue of your boyfriend not wanting to go down on you because you're too wet. That makes no sense.
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no there is no way to stop it............learn to work ' with ' it.
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I am not sure if the female brain can be trained to control your flow of fluids. When I was a teenager I had the same problem with pre-ejaculation fluids. The smallest amount of stimulation would create a flow staining my clothes and it was very embarrasing at times. The only thing that ever helped when I felt it coming on was to get busy doing something else that would take my mind off of what stimulated me.
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unlike your BF my man loves to have his face covered in my wetness, and like you i get very wet, very easily if it makes sex with him a little......worse..........then simply wipe yourself with a tissue or something, i know its simply and maybe not all that erotic, but he could do it for you, as part of the intimacy you share etc.......and then you would be 'dryer' for penetration, and oral from him.......
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thanks for the advice u guys
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oh and he says he doesnt want to because it would be gross.. cuz theres so much
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So he's inhibited. That's too bad, because it makes both of you miss out. Maybe he'll grow up eventually.
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You can't control it. I sometimes get wet from just a kiss.Well my bf loves it, he wants to get me as wet as possible XD Oh and your bf is a nut :P Not wanting to go down on you when you are wet, he is really missing out on it.
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honestly, your bf has nothing to complain about, its a good thing. being 'too' wet isn't possible (atleast in my eyes) i mean like, your wetness isn't flowing out of you? so your fine, your bf should actually be very happy, i know that whenever my gf gets really wet/wetter or whatever - it turns me ON! i go for the gusto and go down on her! or we start having sex....tell him to just get down there, maybe he'll like the taste? a lot of guys do, including myself
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i just learned today that once you get aroused, ur body produces some lubrication and stops - it's not on an on going basis...so it might be possible that you're mistaken wetness for your daily discharge.
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Where did you learn that?
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uh oh...big bad Steve is gonna critisize...I was watching the Sunday Night Sex Show, with that sex specialist/nurse Sue Johansen
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No, BBS wants to know where the info came from. I know that if you have intercourse for a long time, for whatever reason, the lubrication lessens over time. Not sure how true that is in other contexts.
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dang ur b/fs and idiot! let him read these posts and see that the wetter u are the better! if it IS discharge then wipe it up some, but if it's ur natural lube then it's great. i love it when my wife gets wet, like right when i start going down on her, then after a little bit she gets wetter and everything. it makes me want to just lick it all up! MMMMMMM i love a wet, throbbing, hot pussy. either for my tongue or my cock, she can always close her legs some if the lub makes it too loose feeling. geez what a fag! (j/k, i'm not really being that harsh)
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My boyfriend? I'm not a "fag".> i love a wet, throbbing, hot pussyMany of your posts read like porno stories.