Ok its like 3 in the morning right now and my girl just called me and she found out i cheated on her like 2 months ago, and yes i did it was the biggest mistake of my life and im paying for it dearly now and i mainly did it because i had heard she cheated on me and well it defantly back fired. She broke up with me, its not the broken up part that bothers me the most, its seeing how much i hurt her and gosh i cant believe how stupid i was. She said she never wants to hear me, talk to me, think of me, or see me again. That killed me so bad i have never even came close to crying over a girl or anything for that matter but i did tonight. Gosh idk what to doSorry i had to get it out somewhere if you have any suggestions or anything feel free.
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I fucked up so bad
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People tend to say things they don't mean when they are upset. Give her a few days to calm down and let her think things through. After that THEN try talking to her and explaining yourself. If it doesn't work..well then...she's just a girl..and like I tell myself every day..after you graduate..you'll never have to deal with those people again unless you want to.
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Yah thats basically what her friends have said..... thanks
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i cheated on her like 2 months ago...because i had heard she cheated on meYou heard she cheated on you? You went out and cheated on her based on a rumor? You didn't confront her? You just went and stepped out on her? Bad, bad move.If she cheated, you should have dumped her. If she didn't cheat, then you screwed up royally.
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Yah i royally screwed up, she had told me she had held hands with this one guy and i had heard they did more but she denied it so yah i went and did that stupid shit. Right now i think she is trying to make me feel bad or something though.
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Wow she is already talking to me again that shit is werid..... idk me and her are meeting tomorrow to talk it out.
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Good luck - I hope it gets sorted out. Don't be afraid to admit your mistake.
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good luck soup for brains....hahaha
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Wow, you cheated, but you only feel bad about it now because you got caught! Whether she cheated on you or not in the past, that was just a stupid and childish way to get back at her.
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brains = soup...cambells if i am not mistaken
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It was a silly thing to do but I hope you guys are able to work it out.
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Yah it was a childish thing to do and i told her that was no excuse to do it.... and honestly i felt horibble after i did it and i didnt even care about myself i just didnt want to hurt her......And last night me and her sat alone and talked it out for about 20 minutes, i could tell she wanted to cry so bad and her eyes were watering, i kind of wanted to also. We did work it out and i asked her for her forgivness and if we could get back together. We are back together now but idk if she has totally forgave me yet.
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what did u do with the other girl?
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whats cheated on? i think there are libraries full of these definitions. yea, what did you do?
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boba is being rash. It's probubly casue shes drunk, no worrys life is for living and learning we all make mistakes, your 15 the moon is the limit (so i read). What you did was wrong but i wouldn't go as far to say stupid. I dont think you should have gotten back together with her. If you didn't have enough trust to believe her then, why will you believe her now? Or Why will she believe you now. Your still young so you will learn, im my experience the first time your break up should be the last. Especially if you get back to gether becasue of guilt. Thats not the right emotion. Goodluck man
