Why can i only cum once?

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I agree. I think focus is more of an exception than the rule.

Cool - I feel special now :smile:

J/K - I'm not bragging - just stating my experience, and pointing out that you can't always generalize, as not everyone changes the same way as we get older.

I don't think Focus is the exception to the rule at all, especially if you factor in masturbation. Some guys produce more sperm than others and a lot faster. More guys can ejaculate more than once in a one hour period than people think. I think its mainly a genetics thing though. I'm almost 40 and usually can orgasm more than once in under an hour. 2 is usually enough for me, but I know I've done 3 in probably under an hour more than once. 4 is out of the question under any circumstance though...scared to even try really. My second orgasm is often better than my first too. I think genetics play a part and how turned-on you are can play a part also. So I think it can very for each guy.

I don't think Focus is the exception to the rule at allWe're not talking about a "rule" here. We're talking about a trend. If you and he function like younger men, it doesn't mean that you and he are not outliers. But I don't have the data at hand to show that you are.> more spermYou mean more semen. But the issue is more one of being able to get another erection and orgasm soon after you've done it once. Putting out fluid is another issue.> I think genetics play a part and how turned-on you are can play a part also. So I think it can very for each guy.No doubt. And it's not always good to generalize. But if you're marketing Viagra, it's useful to generalize. There is a general trend toward increasing refractory period and difficulty with erections as a man ages. I'm sure there are some 40-year-olds who are like 18-year-olds in that department, but I doubt that there are many 80-year-old who would fit that category.

Yes I did mean semen, sorry about that. From a medical standpoint, I can really see where point. I was just trying to say the other things can play into it also. Like how often your doing it! If your talking immmediately, then I tend to agree with you. If we're talking within an hour, I dunno. Don't wanna get to graphic here, but that scenario seems to suggest that most guys empty their tank the first time, which I don't believe is always the case. Guys orgasms don't vary as much as females, but they can and do vary.

All I'm saying is that there is a trend, as guys age, for it to take longer to be able to have an erection, and to orgasm, as a man ages. By "orgasm", I don't even mean actually putting out any semen. I don't know if tank-filling time (with fluid) increases as a man ages. There are a lot of sample variations. I am generalizing, in the sense that "guys are sexually attracted to women" is a generalization.