What are some tips for giving a good bj?Ive asked my guy what he likes to be done and hes too shy and says"oh try whatever, your doing fine" and he feels uncomfortable with me asking but I can tell im not enjoying it as much as he should..i mean its like the old stuff isnt workin anymore...any tips or tricks would be great
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Blowjobs
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mens taste's for blowjobs vary. if you really cant get anything out of him about what he wants then you will just have to try different things. i know what i like, but i doubt that would help. not many men like having a chewtoy between there legs grins. wait for suckikitten to post, she seems to be the resident expert on blowjobs grins
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well what do you do now? do you suck on his balls, use your hands or face even?
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A few tips that may help you:- No teeth! Make sure your teeth aren't touching his penis- Use your tongue to massage the underside of his penis, just below the head. For most guys that is the most sensitive and pleasurable part of the penis - the frenulum. - The glans (head) is also very sensitive, more so if he's uncut. Use you tongue gently to massage the head, in a circular motion if you can. The glans can be too sensitive though, so don't over do it. Think of the glans as the same as your clit - rubbed gently it can feel great - stimulate it too much and it can almost hurt!- Go deep if you can. Most guys like the sensation of deep throating - a lot of it is visual though. - Use suction sometimes - but again be careful your teeth don't hit when sucking.- Play with his balls while sucking him, gently massaging them.- Change speeds - go slow for a few minutes, then speed up for a few minutes, etc. Hope this helps!
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No I mainly just suck and lick on the top part and work the rest of the shaft with my hand...should I play with balls? and how would i use my face?
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Yes, i think circle motion around the head is very good.
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Some guys like ball play, and some don't. If you're going to try it, just gently rub the scrotum with one hand. Don't squeeze the scrotum, and don't be rough with it unless he asks you to be rough. You can also lick and suck the scrotum, but most guys would prefer that your mouth focuses on thier penis, leaving the testicles for gentle attention from the hands.
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my guy loves have his balls sucked, if you're going to suck them make sure you use your hands on his penis at the same time
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Thanx alot all of these helped!
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No teeth would be the one to ALWAYS remember. Cuz it hurts like hell when they get involved, even a lil bit.
Oh yeah and I dunno if you saw my post about this, but DONT BLOW INTO IT. LoL. You could kill or hurt the poor dude.
(I dunno about killin but still, air in the pipes doesnt sound good at all to me!) -
I mainly lick and suck on the top part too. Use lots and lots of saliva and get things really wet. My guy is uncircimsised and he's really sensitive here.
