Girls with Girs

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I never thought that I would reach the point that I was out of touch with what's going on but this past weekend I was shocked. I went to a bar with several friends after a movie. It was around 11 PM. The place was full of people drinking and dancing. I started looking around and it appeared that 75% of the people were young girls (18 -22?). There must have been at least a hundred girls in this place. They were dancing together and having a good time. Most, it appeared, could have cared less if there were guys there or not. Then I started noticing the sexual attachment that many were having with each other. Some were kissing, rubbing the others boobs and rears. One girl was on her knees rubbing and kissing anything she could find. Eventually I would guess at least half of them started making out with another girl. What's going on here? There were no inhibitions, no reluctance whatsoever. Is this commonplace now? Why? Are they rejecting guys or what?

I would appreciate hearing others opinion on this.

I think there are a few reasons why this happens, one is the fact that more people seem to be able to handle experimentation with the opposite sex, without feeling the shame and embarrassment they may have felt say 10 years ago............but i also think that due to porn films etc etc that girls think thats what men want to see, that men get sooo turned on by seeing them together, that it makes them hotter, than perhaps the girl standing by the bar watching.

Is it possible that you accidentally went into a lesbian bar?

^^ yes that may be have been very likely
i think nowadays girls are generally less inhibited about these things, im 18 and i know plently of girls who say they are bisexual, and i dont think there is anything wrong with that as being young is all about experimentation. i dont think girls do it to just turn guys on, thats slightly backward, well not where i live, maybe you just went to really skanky place though.

Thanks Angel for your response! I think the ability to handle experimentation with BOTH sexes is much more lenient today than it was five years ago. There appears to still be a double standard regarding the sexes. Guys encourage girls to experiment with other girls to satisfy their own fantasies but guys typically hide their sexual experimentation with other guys. This appears to me to be exploitation that has somewhat backfired. Girls may have found that they actually enjoy sex with other girls.Not all guys find this type of public display sexy. Few will turn their backs on it. I looked and I would admit it was interesting but I found it sleezy. I certainly would not take any of those girls home to meet my family. I guess I am old fashioned already. Sex is a private thing between two mutually attracted people with an emotional attachment. I have sex without the emotional attachment and frankly masturbation is just as enjoyable.

Thanks bobalicious for the comment. I don't think it was a lesbian bar. However, not knowing the underground movement, it may have been a "girls night." I have been there many times and never seen anything like this!

You'd be nonplussed in my neighborhood, then. In the straight places, its all guys grinding the bums of the ladies they're dancing with, many of whom they've just met.

Thanks mazcat!I think there are more bisexuals than we really know! There is absolutely nothing wrong with being bi. I think the public display of sex is ok for some and not for others. Experimentation without regard of good judgement is something that each person will have to decide for themselves. If a person is trying to display their sexuality for someone else's benefit I find their character in question. No the place is far from being skanky but that particular night it was definitely skanky...in my opinion. I am getting too old at 25 I guess.

Thank God, finally some ppl realized its 2005...whew..nothing new here in Los Angeles.

Same here![well not at bars at partys!] its guys airhumping[sometimes humping] the girls & iv enever seen grl on grl.