Twice now, i've gone to have sex with 2 different girls, one who i've fancied for a bloody long time, and another who i thought it would be fun, but i can't get it up, let alone keep it up. This is starting to get embarassing. In bed, both naked, i couldn't even get a semi-harden, despite her having a bloody amazing body.... Any hints or tips...? i try not to think about it but i can't help it.... maybe its due to lack of food? i didnt eat the whole day on each occasion...dunno why, just didnt feel like it.... going to try again friday...please help!
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Sex...
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Sometimes thinking about it too much will cause you to lose your hardon.
Try NOT jacking off before your date for a couple of days. This will help to build some sexual tension. Take things slowly. Have lots of foreplay. Focus on her. Try the verbal approach as well.
Have fun!
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yea i didnt jack of for like 3 or 4 days before :P and foreplay sure was there...i think i love her to much...?fucking nerves
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sorry for the language there! just a tad annoyed. i get well nervous and shy at the best let alone worst of times. Probably should of been some brackets in that sentance but nevermind hey?!?anyway, does the food affect it in the short run? or am i just trying to find excuses that im nervous? either way?
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Also, if you can stay the night, the morning on waking up is an excellent time.
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ha. complications. i cant stay the night, her boyfriend will be round at about 10
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LOLand no, don't ask y i'm laughing at you. i will not explain....lol
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Memyself! I'm replying a day too late it seems. But (so i hear) eat roasted pumpkin seeds for 1-3days prior to a sexual encounter, 'sposedly it gives you an extra hard one. However, sounds like you need some better foreplay~ I suggest involving whip cream Also, might want to make sure you are -sexually- attracted to the girl, and not just to her looks. There is a harsh difference.
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Her boyfriend?Perhaps you cant get up because you see that you might ruin his life. Or your gay. Take your pic loser.
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hmm it could be cuz she IS cheating, that being in ur head could definatly mess up things, it's a possiblity....
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This happened to me once and lasted 1 year... I was virgin and coundt have erections. After a year of "sex" with mid-erecrions I am ok now. Have patience and find a girlfriend that can understand you.And something else, if you have stuff in your mind else than sex it wont erect. Eat if you are hungry coz if you r hungry thats the only thing you will be thinking.Cya!