Okay, first, Ive always had this feeling about marriage, and how I NEVER EVER EVER want to get married, Im not sure if this is because Ive had few boyfriends, or I really just have some kind of fear of commitment.and secondly, I feel like Im losing interest in guys.. altogether. I dont know why but one day Im not into guys, and the next I am. My friend said that I could just be a complete lesbian, and not just bi-sexual..(Im fully aware that I AM bi-sexual though). But Im still extremely confused about it. Im almost 18.. you`d think a gal would have things sorted out by now :PBut some of your opinions and ideas would help VERY much.
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Two questions..
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I say don't let it bother you, dont even think about it. If you happen to date a man, and that leads to marriage, fine. If you happen to date a woman and that leads where ever, fine. You dont need to put labels, or figure everything out. This just are how they are.
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but like.. Im absolutely confused about this.My friend said that if I preferred a female body to a mans, then I would be a lesbian. which, is partially true. I would prefer a female body to a mans any day. I just think its weird how sometimes the male body can absolutely disgust me. but on the other hand, I would totally date a guy, ((Ive had 4 "serious" boyfriends, and a bazillion not serious ones.))Im not a virgin, but when people talk about having sex, or anything of the sort, it makes me sick to my stomach. Ive never been raped, or sexually abused (as far as I remember), so Im not sure why I have these feelings.
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Nothing weird about sexuality, it's all part of being human. And since humans come in all different mindsets and orientations, you're officially "NORMAL." You might just find a certain guy is satisfying, sometimes no guys are. No need to "throw in the towel" and say ALL guys disgust me. You might not date a guy for the next ten years, and then all a sudden find one that you really like!