I seem to have the worst luck with women...or at least trying to figure out their needs.
How do you deal with a woman who thinks everything you do isn't good enough? For instance...if something is mentioned about the bathtub being scrubbed but I don't do it until the next day I'm bitched at. But I get the tub cleaned and she never actually told me to do it. Or if I go to the store for 3 items and forget one but pick up some other needed items at the same time she'll claim I screwed up royally and get an attitude that can last for days instead of be understanding about it.
I just don't understand how I can be so giving and she makes me feel like I don't live up to her expectations. Her favorite thing that I do that pisses her off is when she tells me something, like an appointment a week or two away and I ask two days later about that appointment she'll blow up.
I've just tried bringing this problem to her attention but all she does is throw back negative things. I get frustrated and tell her I just don't understand her and all she can throw back is she doesn't understand me...and says it in a smart ass tone. What is it with this woman and do we still have a chance? We are currently living together but I'm wondering if things can't be worked out by communication then it's probably better we split before things go on too much longer.