Last Wednesday, I ran into my first ex, Derek. We hung out every day this past weekend and I asked him if he'd like to go to my prom with me, he said yes. It was until later that I noticed that he hasn't changed. He's still self-absorbed and semi-ignorant. He wants to get back together and I don't. I did for like a day but then I thought of how he treated me and realised he doesn't deserve a second chance. I dun want to go with him to prom or get back together. But how do I tell him this? I don't even know if I don't want to go with him.
Maybe try explaining to him how he has hurt you in the past and that you can tell he hasnt changed from the guy he used to be and that you definataly dont want to get back together with him but if you decide to go to prom with him tell him its strictly friends..
Ah, so he didn't become the guy you wanted him to be. I think you should just tell him straight out. If all else fails, I may have to fly over there for a little one on one time. I got your back.