I mean what am I doing wrong? I am nice to everyone, I work as hard as I can, I am working hard to get back to Purdue, I am sacrificing sleep to do it, and I come to find (my recently operated on cat), has puked everywhere, and now i cannot even sleep on my own bed.
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I think the world hates me
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You know, sometimes life's a rut, and all you can do about it is wait it out. Thing'll get better - ur cat will heal, u'll get to Purdue, you'll take a holiday and get all the sleep you need. Just wait and see, but good luck in the mean while.
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buddy, try to be an evil bastard. Although I can't do it myself, I've seen that they are always on top!
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I have had little interreaction with you, but I would feel fortunate to have your "problems". I would suggest that all is a matter of perception. And it might seem that I am splitting hairs, but I would as soon have challenges instead of problems. The lattter suggests powerlessness and helplessness. A mind set. A way of veiwing the world. Challenges bring out the best from the best, and the worst from the worst, generally. The cat vomited on your bed. You take the mattress off the boxsprings, stand it up against the wall, wipe up the excess fluid, and then drape a cloth with cold (not hot) water over the stained area. Sleep on the box springs for the night. While you sleep, the stain is being worked, and will largely be removable the next day when you are refreshed. You will also get in touch with the vet and learn why the cat vomitted, why the vet did not tell you, or why did you not ask about side effects or potential situations as a result of the surgery. You will increase your knowledge.Little story. Went hiking once. Drove standard trany Volkwagen to the Blue Ridge, four hours from home, to hike. Get up almost to the top of the mountain I was going to hike from, car dies. Clutch cable snapped. Bummer. can't go hiking. Shit. Hiking is cool, allows me to get away from the city and the boxes we shut ourselves off from nature in. I looked around. I had gotten away from the city and the artificial boxes. Cool. Hiking gets me close to nature. I look around. Accomplished that, too. Cool. Turn to the car. Have nothing from which to fashion a clutch cable that works, so I tinker a while, Nearest town is much lower in elevation and miles away. I get in the car, release the brake, and as I start to roll back, I turn the wheel so the nose of the car faces downhill, and then power shift all the way home. Close to home, it is midnight, and traffic is slight, so red lights be damned (I did wait and time it to acheive this). I get home. Rose to the challenge, did not wallow in the problem.Change of perceptions, allowing for fluidity. Yeah yeah yeah... Edit; Thanks, Walken, for giving me the chance to remind myself again of these concepts. Always nice to reinforce such. SO many potentials from one situation! Life is excellent!!
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i came to realize when it gets bad u have to stand tall , brush ur self off and keep going ahead . u may have to take baby steps to do it but when u get to ur destination the reward is far greater then anything. i have no family support any longer since i seperated (only from my kids) have no friends because the ones i had were my ex's . but i moved out went back to school.and have new things to look forward to . keep ur chin up ! it will all work out.just go with the flow
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I am thinking about quiting my job. I mean I think for this pay period i am the second highest seller (and i am brand new), but i have everything dumped on me...I always leave late, I am going to talk to my head manager to let her know b/c i cannot leave late during school weeks.
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if you prioretize a bit, it can halp. Once you figure that trick out, TELL ME HOW!!Have you been writing lately?
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it would be better to have another job lined up before you quit one, but of course you know that. Most employers/managers are flexible, especially if one is a good employee. No need to suggest a need to quit as a negotiating point in order to leave on time. Just tell her that you need to leave on time, and unapolagetically.
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You're doing nothing wrong sweetie, things like that just happen sometimes. You live through it, you learn from it, and you grow wiser because of it. BTW, sorry I haven't got to talk to you on AIM lately, the damn file has been deleted from my computer again! growl But back on subject, things will get better soon, I mean once you hit the bottom the only way to go is up... just give yourself sometime, things will fall into place eventually. Ugh, I'm sorry your cat got sick on your bed... I know how it is, although I'd actually rather have puke on my bed than waking up to find my chihuahua decided to have a bad case of diarrhea all over my pillow and favorite blanket shudders that was a really gross morning ... needless to say my dog and I were not on friendly terms for a while. Anyways, cheer up, things will get better, and you know if you need to talk I'm here ^_^ big hugs
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yeah, i forgot what i was gonna type...damn
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I figured something was up. It is strange, I think i am going to go insane. I have problems where i am not so happy and then some days I am. I have to constantly remind myself what I am striving for in life, and just constantly lonely. What is wrong with me.....