hey guys...I just wanted to ask...I went to a strip club for the first time the other night, with some friends of mine, and I got a lapdance, but the girl didn't really do anything for me (in terms of getting it up) and I didn't get aroused or get an erection or anything...She was all rubbing on me and stuff, I'm assuming some know how a lapdance is, but nothing was really happening down thereI dont know, maybe my mind just wasn't into it or something, and I wasn't really attracted to her...I mean she was decent but she was flat, etc...not my type at all...but I feel like most young guys would be hard in 5 seconds if they were in that position (no pun intended)I think it might have been the mental factor...like I was thinking too much about, ok, why am I not getting hard, and trying to force it lolI dont think there is, but I cant help but ask..is there something wrong with me?
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Is there something wrong with me?
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No. Nothing is wrong with you. I wouldn't get an erection if some unattractive girl gave me a lapdance.
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Thanks...I mean, she wasn't totally unattractive or anything, she was halfway decent, skinny, maybe too skinny, flat, etc...and that was kind of my first experience having a girl all on me like that... I just found the entire outing very strange...
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I think it might have been the mental factorIt was. Don't worry about it. Perfectly normal. Men don't go on and off like light switches.
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Cool, thanks...
then I guess one just has to relax :smile: