Nice Guys Finish Last

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Hey, i just finished talking to my Ex, i can see us becoming good friends again just cause i liked her so much... but one thing she said to me, stuck with me"you need to start being more of an ass, nice guys finish last..." I'm a pretty mellow and easy going kid, and i hate being an ass but i bet if i was more of a prick, (instread of treating her like a queen) for some reason we'd still be together... Why is it nice guys always seem to finish last?

I totally disagree with that...I go for the sweet guys even if they are ugly because Ive been with too many pricks...so maybe if she starts dating and winds up with alot of assholes she'll realize what shes missin...or then again...that could just be her taste

http://www.fastseduction.com/guide/01_The_Basic_Rules/niceguys.shtmlBut yeh, noone likes a pussy. Your a man grow some balls ffs.

yeah man that article was tottaly right, i was thinking that afterwards to... if i just said some shit that was on my mind to her (sexual wise)... she would have agreed..oh well you live you learn but fack

I know how you feel. I am very nice and I used to never express myself, but I am getting better and better and saying my mind and more girls are begining to notice me (that might also be becuase of the weight loss too).

You know what, screw it. I'm going to be a nice guy even if it's supposedly bad for me. I'll get what I deserve in the end.

"Nice Guys Finish Last"... but atleast we finish.

oh man theres nothing wrong with being nice, i just needed to drop more subtle sexual hints

girls are so goddamn complicated, it's hard to tell what they want and don't want. I say just be who you are, if you are a nice guy, screw it, be a nice guy, why try and be a fake asshole, we all saw how good that worked in American Wedding (I know it's only a movie). Just act as yourself and it will work out. See, I have this problem, I totally know how to explain it, but I can't follow my own advice. Maybe, someday, someone will kick my ass, and I will finally figure out how to be myself... who knows.

Your girlfriend said that to you?! She couldn't find a more specific way of phrasing it? Its possible you may need to display more assertivenss and confidence but I would not link these traits with being an ass. Your friend needs more tact in her truths. She deserves to date an ass.

nice guys dont always finish last. my boyfriend is the nicest guy, love him to pieces. She will realise what she is missing out on, if she doesnt, you can do better. nice guys will eventually come out on top. don't change the way you are just for one girl, just be the nice guy you are, dont ever change to please other people, specially not into an arse, not good.

Its true. I consider myself to be the nicest you could ever be, and I always have crappy crappy luck with girls.But I just can't be an ass. It's not in my nature to do so. I'd rather not be a dick and not get some than be an asshole and get it every night.That sounds really bad :|

no it doesn't. I agree with what you said.

she said, your to nice, nice guys finish last... man i figured it out, its just cause i was too nervous and shit to make a move, and then when i thought i was giving her what she wanted she freaked... looking back it was a big lack of communication its bascially a learning process, a painful one but one i'd imagien everyone goes through

I got a better one. Nice guys don't finish last, it's just a lot of chicks don't know what they want.... works in my case anyways.

Of course nice guys finish last. Only an ass would make a point to finish first, before she does... you're not likely to continue getting laid if you're so interested in finishing as quickly as you can

lmao. I guess you've got a point.

yeah i'm also gonna have to agree with chicks don't know what they want, but i'ma stop worrying about thsi stuff, and havae a good weekend

i think i have the exact same problem.. fkin nice.. fker

nice guys are #1! ive been dating my nice guy for a year and three months. yes, sometimes hes...too nice, but i love him all the same, just as he loves me for being an ass hole. nice guys out there, stay nice, someday you'll find someone who you can be with forever. but those ass holes, theyll go from girl to girl, only to realize theyre going to be alone for the rest of their lives.