I am fifteen, latter sixteen, and I have never once had a girl friend. I will be honest, I have only had one girl who would prefer to talk to me...I have the qualities that would make me desirable to any girl:Stature, Body, Looks, Knowledge, Ability, and Understanding.I hold a $15.20/h job (so-- I do have money) in which is a natural desire in every human. I play six muiscal intruments, three in which I play professionally. (Cello, Viola, Piano)I am a simple, basic, and clean... Nothing wild or radical.I am shy and reserved, I take manners before anything else.I enjoy my dignity-- so I will not act on anything stupid.But still, I don't understand why girls don't seem to want to be around me.I really have a small amount of friends, but I think that should include at least one woman.
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What do I not posses?
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Ok so your a 15 year old karate champion with 9 years experience and you play six musical instruments in which 3 of those you play professionally. With the time leftover from these activities you hold down a job that pays $15.20 an hour and go to school. Im 15 also and suddenly I feel like i've done nothing with my life.
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To be honest, although you have achieved quite a lot at such a young age and are doing much better than many who have worked their whole life, you sound like the most boring person ever!
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Your resume is commendable, but a teenage girl is not a potential employer. If you want to date girls, you need to be around them and get to know them. Activities that bring you into contact with girls would be a good start. Do your male friends have any input?
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I am-- sort of arrogant.
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In reply to: I have the qualities that would make me desirable to any girl:Stature, Body, Looks, Knowledge, Ability, and Understanding. All of these are superficial and can't always be noticed without deep conversation. In reply to: I hold a $15.20/h job (so-- I do have money) in which is a natural desire in every human. Money does make the world go around, but if you get a girl by flashing your money, you're going for the wrong kinda girl. In reply to:I play six muiscal intruments, three in which I play professionally. (Cello, Viola, Piano) Well, all girls fall head over heels for the Cello players. In reply to: I am a simple, basic, and clean... Nothing wild or radical. You sound like a laugh at a party! In reply to:I am shy and reserved, I take manners before anything else. Although commendable, haven't ya heard, the bad boys are in at the moment! In reply to:I enjoy my dignity-- so I will not act on anything stupid. Dignity is all well and good, but nobody likes a kill-joy who doesn't join in. Not talking about doing stuff cause others are, but try to join in!Now, I don't want you to think that I'm just trying to attack you in any way, but I'm just trying to point out that to be noticed by a girl, you have to stand out as a fun, outgoing person. Being good looking is great, but useless if nobody notices you.
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In a nutshell.
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as lifeless said. This makes my life look indeed like I have done nothing....Do you have any time what so ever to do anything that you want to do like lets say, just hypotetically (sp?) have some fun?And try to change the shy guy thing, I was shy like 2 years ago, but I changed it a bit, and my life is a more funner place.Is funner even a word? I dun think so I think it is. My English teach would be like OMFGWTF, that ends my random comments/rant.
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My English teach would be like OMFGWTFI had an English teacher who used the word "twat", but your teacher has her beat.BlueCaboose, those are all good comments. I can tell you one thing: If you're trying to relate to a girl, a sense of humor will get you far. And for God's sake, learn to play lead guitar, or sing and at least play rhythm guitar. You'll notice that Eric Clapton has no trouble attracting the ladies, and he's not even a warrior.
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I reckon "funner" has been used enough recently to make it a word. "More fun" is more traditional, but it's very unusual for a monosyllabic adjective to require "more" for the comparative. Hmm, my first edition OED reveals the reason: "fun" is not considered as an adjective, but a noun. But I opine that it's often effectively being used adjectivally."Twat" is a useful four-letter word for a vagina. There's a nice story about Browning, the Victorian poet. He read a rude satirical poem in which someone is described as wanting a Cardinal's hat, but instead all he got was an old nun's twat. Browning was too innocent to know the word, and he assumed it was a type of nun's headwear, and so he used the word (new words with new rhymes are always useful for a poet) in a poem of his own that was meant to be very respectable.Sorry, couldn't resist . . .
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"Twat" is a useful four-letter word for a vagina.My old English teacher was as innocent as Robert Browning. She though twat was a cute way to refer to one's behind (as in, "sitting on one's arse). She didn't get it, but the class did. One day, she just stopped using the word. I think she finally got it.I think "twat" is most useful as an insult...not as harsh as the "see you next Tuesday" word.
