Hi guys, I really need to talk about this. I recently told a girl that I don't love her anymore. But I lied, I love her so much but I had to do what I did because I know that she didn't really love me. We are still friends now but she has found someone else in a hurry, and everytime I see them together my heart just sinks. I feel so horrible, but yet I know that she's happy and I'm happy for her. I want to tell her that I still love her but I don't want to push her away. I know I need to move on but it's so hard to do. I want to cry sometimes when I think about all I've been through for her. and I don't want to feel this way. If you know any good way to get her back, or just another chance, or a good way to let her go. Please tell me.
Why is it hard to keep someone???
It would really have been a better if you could have talked to her about her feelings, but it's kind of late for that now.
Because "she didn't really love me", you need "a good way to let her go". The fact that she found someone else so quickly supports the idea that she wasn't in love with you. But there is no "good way". Over time, it should get easier. You need to focus on other things, preferably social things.
i agree with mr steve here. there are so many other people out there and there are girls that will actually love you. it'll get easier with time, but you need to move on because she obviously has.... good luck