Ok this is really strange most likely but I need to know how to last longer in sex. When my girlfriend and I have sex I get off in like 5 minutes and she is lying there begging me to keep going...How can I make it last longer. And also...when she tries to give me a blow job she can do it for like 15 minutes and never get me off. WHy is this? It feels really good but it just never gets me off.
A couple of weird questions
As for lasting longer.. some guys will masterbate before having sex, that usually makes you last longer. Also you can try and stop and go method with sex as well.. when you start to feel like you are close to orgasm slow down or stop a sec or stop and go down on her to continue pleasuring her. Just be creative =-)
As for the oral sex part, I don't have a solution for you. I'm the same as you in the fact that I cannot get off by a blow job. But I am finding that's pretty normal.
There are lots of techniques you can try but it's impossible to say beforehand how well any of them will work for you. Try varying your stroke every few minutes - this regularly has the effect of dampening the ardour just a little, delaying orgasm/ejaculation slightly. As an example, if your doing missionary, when you come up stay there for 10 seconds instead of plunging straight down again but wiggle around a little bit so there's still some stimulation both for you and her.When you go down, stay down for 30 seconds and suck her nipple or run your tongue across her breasts. Then try some slow, grinding while kissing or fondling before going back to the strokes.Spend more time on the foreplay before going into penetration. The closer you bring her to orgasm before you start penetration, the less time you actually have to last during penetration.Try holding your breath every time you go up, stay up for 10 seconds, then come down slowly and breathe out deep and slow across her stomach/breasts. There are lots of other things you can do but basically what you want to do is kill the impetus, just very slightly, at key points. But the only way to find a technique guaranteed to work for you is to experiment...which can be a lot of fun for both you and her As for the blowjob, some guys just can't get off that way but if you masturbate with your hands normally, then try guiding her hands while she's 'engaged' so to speak. It may just be that her technique is not the most pleasurable for you personally and consequently it isn't working.