I have a rather odd question I was hoping I could find an answer here regarding sensitivity, or lasting time. I'm 21 and have been with the same girl for over 4 years now (married in fact) and we've noticed something a bit odd from time to time regarding my ability to stay. We've been unable to find anything that might be causing it and thought somebody else might have an idea. I normally last, during intercourse, for 10-15 minutes or so; which is great for us both. However, at times I have trouble lasting more than a couple of minutes. The odd part is, it isn't for just a day. It normally last a week or two and then its back to normal for a couple of months. My wife is lucky enough to orgasm through intercourse and she has a hard time reaching climax during this period and it is very frustrating for both of us; when most of the time it isn't uncommon for her climax more than once per "session". Any ideas on what causes this or any way to overcome it? Anywhere else I might find an answer? Thanks
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I assume you're talking about orgasming too quickly, rather than losing your erection too soon.That sounds really normal to me. You can try lengthening or shortening foreplay, or you can use other methods to help your wife gets an orgasm. You can try using your fingers during intercourse, to help speed things up for her. You're pretty lucky; a lot of women can't even orgasm from intercourse alone.By the way, I like your user name.
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In reply to: I was hoping I could find an answer here regarding sensitivity Dude, There are so many things written about your problem, I’m guessing the problem is you are too turned on by your partner or by what you are doing. Your level of arousal is way too high and you don’t know how to stop before the point of now return, When I was younger, that sometimes happened to me and I would use two condoms to help desensitize my penis. I have tried the cream a few times, but I wasn’t sure if they were worth it.(The cost or the hassle)I always found that learning to know when to stop thrusting or pull out completely in order for the sensation to subside and then do it again. What helped me in the long run was self control. I also found out that it still happens to me sometimes if I go for any prolonged length of time between shags. You could both practice stopping before the point of no return thru mutual masturbation. It's exciting as hell and fun. It has proven for me to be very helpful.Hope this helps…Hey, also check out this spot. They have some good things written…:http://www.bionix.net/
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Yes, good ideas. MichaelH, you can do what you need to do when you need to do it, and not worry about it at other times. (Kind of souded like a Frankie Goes to Hollywood song.)