Well, As I've said before I have never really been able to get off by oral sex. I think a lot of it comes from me being so used to getting off my masterbating that I'm having a hard time getting off otherways. I hit puberty really early in life (I was 9 years old) and masterbating ever since than.Well I was thinking that maybe if I stop masterbating and only got off(or atleast try and get off) when I have sex with my BF that I might get my body used to getting off other ways than using my hand. I know this might also cause "blue balls", but you'd figure eventually your body is gonna give in, right? lolNormally I wouldn't even worry about how I orgasm, but I can tell it frustrates my lover that he cannot get me off. I reassure him it's not him because it feels awesome when he gives oral sex, I'm just not used to getting off that way. But anyways that's why I want to do this.So what you think?
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You think something like this can work?
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I think you should try, no harm in it really. And if it works, well then all is great!
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Darlin you might as well try it, whats it gonna hurt, well apart from blue balls LOL
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it could probably help. I know what you mean about being too used to the way it feels to do it yourself. I was about 23 the first time someone brought me to orgasm orally. There have only been 2 others since (includung Mrs U), not for lack of effort.
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I C what you mean and its different for each person but I would deffinately try it lol. For example the movie "Forty Days and Forty Nights" all though its a factious film, its true on how the human body reacts to a sensual touch after so long of an absense. It can get your nerves out there lmao.I did that with my boyfriend. I had stopped masterbating, and whever he would play with my clit or suck on my nipples I would just get so wet and squirm and moan hehe, so Id say what harm can it do to try hehe
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Go for it and good luck
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yes good luck, and hopefully it all works out,
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Dude, I dont think I could quit. If you can, then it sounds like a plan, but... oh, god, the thought of not being able to get off myself!!! Oh, God!
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LOL! Well trust me it's going to take a lot of will power, but I think I can do it since it's for my lover.
