Well I was having a wonderful day/evening until my ex-boyfriend who I was engaged to two years ago came into the place I work. That didn't bother me because we rarely talk anymore, what did bother me was him calling me an hour later after he left just to tell me he was gay. Okay, why the hell did he have to do that? Why is it I never hear from him for long periods of time except when he needs something or just to rub something in my face? He knows I still care deeply for him and yet he has to push this up in my face, it made me feel like I wasn't good enough for him. I have no problem with him being gay it just really made my self-esteame drops a few more notches, and it really made me feel like I was just being used during the time we were together. Now that may or may not be true, but that's how I feel. I'm feeling really itty bitty right now... and not even two hours after he told me he had to come in with his fucking boyfriend! Hell, he had to rub it in more huh? I feel like I was a cover-up! Sorry about pushing this off on you guys but I needed some place to vent/rant and this is the only place I can do that.
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Oh damn...
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Oh he's a jerk! I'm sorry he did that to you. He should be shot (that's my new line now) lol. But still he had no right to do that in the first place. I hope you feel better.
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he is an attention whore. His issues are all about him, not you.If he bothers you again, tell me his name
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Thanks guys, you've made me feel a little better. When I came home, my brother was sitting in my living room and the first thing he said was "Next time I see him I'm going to tell him one thing... I will walk up to him and say '****, I'm Katie's big brother as you already know. If I ever hear her say that you've talked to her, touched her, or even looked at her in anyway I will personally break your face. I don't care if you call the police and say I've threatened you, I'll tell them myself I did. Quit fucking with her or you're going to answer to me.' And don't tell me I'm not going to do it because I am. I'm tired of him fucking you over." Then he walked out. I know I shouldn't feel this bad about it but I do. I feel used.
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Wow you're brother sounds with like my other two brother and dad... with some words omitted. But I know that it feels bad right now but soon you're going to get a guy that actually deserves you. So try and relax for a while and you will soon be over him. I hope you feel better and that he gets whats coming to him.
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I like your brother!After an "after bar" party at my house, one of the guys I was ejecting said to his buddy "wait a bit, I gotta see if I can fuck this chick". The "chick" in question was my sister. That ended up as a bad night for him.
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It seems like you're interpreting his situation as if you somehow pushed him toward being gay through some defect of your own. Nothing could be further from the truth. It's 100% him. It's probably what led to your breakup.I personally know two women who left their (heterosexual) marriages (one has a child) to be with their girlfriend. One was from a pretty conservative family. If I were either of those husbands, I would have felt a lot worse if I were left for another guy. But since the wives discovered that their true orientation was not hetero, there nothing the husbands could have done better or differently to have saved thier marriages. The split was a fait accompli from the start.What I'm trying to say that your ex's newly discovered orientation is in no way your doing, and should kind of be a relief.
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hugs Sorry to hear you had a crappy night.I tend to agree with SteveA. I really doubt he used you sweetie, I think he was just confused about his sexuality. Still I think he could have done without calling you, but maybe that's his way of trying to "make things better". There might even be a good chance he wants to be friends.In High School I dated a girl for over a year and a half and I broke up with her because I was starting to understand my sexuality more. Well a couple years later I gave her a call and I told her about me being gay. I could tell she was hurt alittle, and she expressed it more when she said she was still inlove with me. But we talked things through and now she's one of my best friends.So I can understand that you are probably very hurt, and hell who wouldn't be. But maybe explore the other possibility that he's trying to clear things up and perhaps wants a friendship.Again sweet sorry you had such a crappy night. BIG hugs