Hokay. So.

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There's this girl (I think half of the topics start out like that, haha) that I've known for 2 years. Last year, we weren't much of friends, but this year, things have changed. She's really different from last year. The first sign was when she emailed me (we hadn't talked all summer) and said, "I miss you boi. Luv ya." I admit, I felt a little good because she said that. I liked her last year, and I'm glad that didn't imprint something bad into our friendship. But, anyway, to the point. Right now, she acting a little strange. Like, she views me as so much more than before. For instance, I called her today (she didn't give me her number), and she asked how I got her number, and I said that I got it from a friend. She just laughed, and we talked. She teases me a lot about things. For example, not too long ago, I was joking about picking her up (it was 3 AM), and we could go to Wal-Mart. I asked her that if I did it, what would we do. She said that she would find a pillow and sleep somewhere. She, then, said that "I could find another one and sleep nearby ." Ok, I know she's only joking and stuff. But she does this thing a lot. Not too long ago, she asked me if I liked her last year. She said that she never remembered me asking her out (it was over IM and was a little complicated). Do you think that if I had made it more clear, that we would've went out last year? Also, we always have fun together, and we are only serious on the forums. It would be nice to have a little thing with her, but I don't see that happening.

whoa.. u dont' see that happening? She's clearly hinted multiple times, so take her out one time in your car and make out. She is obviously interested in you and wants more. Why not have her over and start making out with her? that's what i'd do.

Bler. Sigh. I wish people would stop with the "she obviously wants you" posts. Life, unfortunately isn't that simple.I know plenty of flirty girls who will do this sorta stuff and mean NOTHING by it whatsoever.One girl I know will make all sorts of risqué comments, grab my ass, rub my leg, flash her chest at me, and all sorts of stuff like that, but she doesn't "obviously want" me. She has the panting hots for someone else, she's just a big flirty ho, and I know plenty of other girls like this too.I don't want to put a damper on the thread-starters post, but I really don't like the word "obviously" being used. It's too much of a hope-bringer.

Yeah. I agree. She doesn't obviously want me. I've met girls who are flirts, but they don't want me. If anything, the girls who do want me are the ones that are shy, not flirts. =/

ok, perhaps she isnt being "obvious". that isn't too good of a word here. However, the mere fact that she's flirting with you like that means that she's open and possibly willing to do stuff with you. I knew a girl who was being very flirtatious with some guys. And after I got ot know her it was too late. ... yeah, i got to do things with her, but the whole time she was availble to do things with me even though she had a boyfriend. Taking an opporunity at hand is worth it if you get the right results. I'd definitely advise you to do more with her. I've learned that girls are a lot more hornier than I previously thought.      

Sorry, but I don't go out with people to just get laid.

I like this Satrin guy He has brains!And, of course, he's absolutely right.And to make a point, these girls who are flirty to me, have absolutely ZERO intention of doing anything with me whatsoever. I asked once whether it was serious and if she meant anything, to which the reply was "no. i flirt cos it's fun, but 90% of guys i flirt with I have no intentions to, and in fact are quite repulsed by them".She was at it again last night. Grinding me, and playing with my hair and staring into my eyes and stuff, but it was all just an act.

Well, over IM, I asked her what she wants for her birthday. She got all mad because I didn't remember her birthday (I was off by two days, haha). But, she was probably just playing around. Anyway, I asked her what she wants to do (because she doesn't want anything), and she was like, "I don't know. You decide." I said, "No. It's your birthday, it's your decision." She asked if I want it to just be me and her, or just hang with friends. I asked her what she wants, and she was indecisive, and just decided that we have another month to decide (birthday is Oct. 19th). Does that mean she wants it to be me and her since she wasn't quick to say, "Let's hang with friends."? Note that she doesn't say that she likes anyone, she lets the guy ask her out. The only thing is. She likes to see who likes her or not. And, maybe she was just wondering if I liked her or not. But then again, she could have just been waiting for me to make the decision for it to be me and her because she wants it like that.

Again, I talked to her about her birthday. And she wants to drive around (go up north somewhere) and listen to her music. Haha. She wants to go far. o_O

Some girls do expect the guy to - well, not exactly to make the decisions, but to make the suggestions.

I think you two should take and see what each other wants and ask her out on a date and talk.