Although, I really don't want to look throughout the threads to ask this, because it's kind of depressing me already. Alright, here's my problem, me and my girlfriend are finally having sex again, and i'm glad about that. But i'm having two problems. One, my blood flow down there just stops after a little while inside of her, and I lose my erection, and it's making me feel like less of a man. I mean I still have a little, like when you are hard, but not nearly completetly, so is there any exercises/ anything at all to improve it? And two, when I finger her I can hit a spot on her that makes her go wild, and I understand that, but it just makes me feel a LOT less of a man knowing that I can only give her that pleasure through that way, so if anyone has any tips on just overall sexual activities, that'd be great.The reason this is upsetting me the most is because i've had sex with a lot of girls, if you want to believe i'm lying that's fine, honestly I wish I was lying. Anyways, I used to feel like I was really good because I was able to get a lot of girls into having sex, and I know my girl is getting pleasure, but it doesn't feel like she's getting NEARLY as much as I used to be able to do... And i'm only 18, so I don't think it has to be with getting older... Does anyone think that maybe all this is just caused by stress? I don't know, any advise at all would be lovely.
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I know this has been asked a million times
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Also, i'm not sure if this is against the rules or not, i've heard it being on other forums, but i'm too stressed to read through them at the moment, but if anyone has any advise that doesn't want to be posted on here or whatever, I have AIM, and it is Shadowbeforelife no spaces.... Thanks...
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Many women don't get orgasm readily from penis-in-vagina sex, and they need more clitoral stimulation. It's quite normal. Your sexual experience before might not have included such women, and so you didn't expect it and you feel inadequate. Combined with your stress and depression and low self-esteem, that causes trouble keeping hard. If you can improve your self-confidence I'm sure that will stop happening.
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Yeah sadly enough I know you're right... I just honestly don't know how to, it's really hard. I used to be a lot better looking, and so much better I had so much except family, but I think that's what gave me so much, because I depended on no one but myself, so it made me strong... But now, so many things have happened, and my body has permanent scarring, not like a cut scar, but bodily features (not my dick) that just depress me... Mainly I feel like i'm not the man I used to be that I want to be for her... And you're right, maybe those others didn't get the same stimulation, but is there a way or any tips someone could give to help me with this problem? I never thought i'd ask for help, so this is honestly very embarrassing asking for help in general, so anything would help..
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Viagra!!!?!!?!! Maybe youre losing your boner because youre worried about losing your boner? If you worry about it it can put you out the mood. Just stay focused on fucking the hell out of her and enjoy it. Go wild like a chimp on acid!!!!
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I never even noticed it until today, we just started again yesterday and she pointed out that I was losing it because she was worried she wasn't satisifying me sexually... I never had these problems before, so it's just weird.
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Get some viagra if you wanna have a rock solid cock until you finish the job. Maybe its your diet or somthing just get excercise eat right etc and dont wory about losing it during sex just enjoy it. Concentrate on enjoyin the sex yourself if you think about pleasing the other person too much you forget to please yourself and then it goes floppy like a wet piece of string.
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Yeah I see whatcha saying.. I still have the sexual urge of a horse on crack, but it has been taking me forever to bust and I think that's effecting my sexual stimulation now that I think about it, and I doubt there's anything you can do about that... I mean I still get the nice strokes every once in awhile that are just like damn that feels good, but I can't finish, but i'll try to start excercising again, hope that helps...If anyone else has any other suggestions that would be great.
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also dont take a wank for a while see if that helps.