I want to ask my boyfriend to move in, but am afraid it will screw up what we have

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That reminds me of a joke I got today.

1. THINGY (thing-ee) n.
Female...... Any part under a car's hood.
Male..... The strap fastener on a woman's bra.

2. VULNERABLE (vul-ne-ra-bel) adj.
Female.... Fully opening up one's self emotionally to another.
Male.... Playing football without a cup.

3. COMMUNICATION (ko-myoo-ni-kay-shon) n.
Female... The open sharing of thoughts and feelings with one's partner.
Male... Leaving a note before taking off on a fishing trip with the boys.

4. COMMITMENT (ko-mit-ment) n.
Female.... A desire to get married and raise a family.
Male...... Trying not to hit on other women while out with this one.

5. ENTERTAINMENT (en-ter-tayn-ment) n.
Female.... A good movie, concert, play or book.
Male...... Anything that can be done while drinking beer.

6. FLATULENCE (flach-u-lens) n.
Female.... An embarrassing byproduct of indigestion.
Male...... A source of entertainment, self expression, male bonding.

7 MAKING LOVE (may-king luv) n.
Female...... The greatest _expression of intimacy a couple can achieve.
Male.. Call it whatever you want, just as long as we do it.

8. REMOTE CONTROL (ri-moht kon-trohl) n.
Female.... A device for changing from one TV channel to another.
Male... A device for scanning through all 375 channels every 5 minutes.

Well good luck hun! Sounds like a very positive thing for you. Just keep us posted and again positive thoughts your way!Take Care!

LMAO grin they are sooo true in the book, on mars when men ask other men if they want a hand that means - your shit at that i can do it better than you.on venus when a woman asks a woman if they need help is means - i really care for you, i'll help you out to show how much you mean to me.so, when a woman asks a man shes saying i love ya and wanna help and a man sees it as her sayings hes a pathetic waste of space...................the beauty of misunderstanding LOL

Wow. Men really suck.

Well the good ones suck anyways =-)~~~~~

I just had to let you know that that comment really amused me and brought a well need smile to my face ^_^

Well good! Glad it gave you a smile \*hug\*

not at all steve, both sexes think SOOO differently thats all

Hey wish me luck. I won't be back until Monday, hopefully with good news. Have a great weekend.

You have a great weekend as well and positive thoughts! Good luck!

He said YES!!!!! I'm very excited. I'm going to shift a few things around this week and give him a closet, etc. I really don't know how much more he has left to bring over anyway. Like I said, he's been slowly moving in anyway. This is the first man I've been with that has moved emotionally at the same pace as me. Most women move a lot faster in a relationship. We are always waiting for a man to catch up and end up at least close to the same chapter, usually never the same page.

YAY!! Congrates hun! Glad everything went the way you wanted!!

Glad everything went the way you wanted hon hugs

He's not much of a talker when it comes to personal or emotional stuff, but he will answer me. Basically, all his responses were "yes", "ok", "uhuh". You know guys. Funny creature.We haven't talked about the money thing yet, but that won't be hard to do now that I know he's there. I don't think he's the kind of guy that would take advantage of anyone anyway.Are any of you into astology at all? The reason I ask is because if you know anything about the signs at all, he's all leo. That explains the way he moved himself in over the last few months without really discussing it with me. He has a lot of other "cat" characteristics. I do say, he's on the mild side of a leo though. I haven't seen the temper or stubborness. He's just a man that gets what he wants and won't stop until he does. Almost in an arogant way but not harmful. Everything he's done so far, he's expected it be okay with me. Me, being a libra, am very compromising, so he was right. He is so confident in himself, that he never thought I wouldn't want what he's doing. I find that very "cute".