I'm still a virgin but I was wondering: when having sex when a guy cums we dont want to do anything else jsut lay ther for a minute. What do the girls thnk about this? Wouldnt they get angry that jsut like that we are done?? Or do some guys go to oral sex to pleasure the girl?
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Justa Question
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Well, it's important to make sure the girl has her pleasure too. Ask her what she likes? It is expected that after a guy cums, there will be a let down for a while, but usually not too long. You will be able to go more than once.
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lol..its so annoying, not only do guys have to lie there for a bit..they usually end up dropping off to sleep!
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Would you be pissed if you were at the verge and your girlfriend suddenly stopped and said she didn't feel like finishing? Think of her. If you can't last long enough for her, then finish her off with fingers or oral. It's only right. If you don't want to finish for her, I'm sure she won't be in the mood next time you want some.
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^^agree
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You're funny and absolutely right. Most guys do fall asleep afterwards. Of course, so do we. It's one of the best sleeping pills.But back to the issue, girls almost always take longer. A guy should spend a great amount of time with foreplay. Especially if the guy is "trigger happy". If you can't hold back, make sure to take care of her when you're done BEFORE you fall asleep.
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Oh that’s right.... Damn. That must be the problem….I forgot to read that part of the manual that covered how to totally fulfill women. (If possible)I guess I was still looking over the troubleshooting guide as to why women think us guys are “Trigger Happy”Lord know they would be serving Ice water in hell, before a woman could get off quickly.Bring the Ipod guys……Pack light. It’s gonna be weekend detail.
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As much as us women would like to be "trigger happy" ourselves, it's just not true. But I do believe we have more intense orgasms and they last a little longer. A good lover, female or male, loves the satisfaction of getting his/her partner off. A lot of times that can be more erotic than foreplay. There's always time for round two, or three, and so on . . .
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A good lover, female or male, loves the satisfaction of getting his/her partner off. A lot of times that can be more erotic than foreplay. There's always time for round two, or three, and so on . . .
True...
But sometimes guys just need some really hot, nasty, fast screech monkey sex and then a little power nap.Women should learn that it's not always about pleasing you first before we can pop a nut. Making love is fine.. but sometimes, we just need something more.
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Nothing wrong with that from time to time either. Most women realize that they don't always get off. As you say, hard, hot sex is great too. Just don't ever forget who's doing it for you. They deserve a reward too.
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Okay... I'll give you that one.....Yes, in most cases, men are lousy lovers. But we learn from trial, error and from repetitiveness. Usually telling us what you like help instead of expecting us to just know or read your mind.Most guys are capable of separating sex and emotional feelings. We sometimes just need sex. Not all the bullshit that goes with it. Where as women intertwine sex with their emotion… Just expecting us to make sure you’re satisfied or pleasured is met first is somewhat arrogant, at best Thanks for playing ….. Please cum again!I do envy the fact you can have multiple orgasms! That must be so cool!
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But sometimes guys just need some really hot, nasty, fast screech monkey sex and then a little power nap. oh yeah i LOVE that, and i love to lay back, take a breath, snuggle into his shoulder and fall asleep...........then wake up an hour of so later and peel the sheet from my ass LOL
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Peel the sheet from your ass!! NICE! I doubt there's any guy out there than can consistantly outlast his girl. If so, I want to be him! No guy wants to finish off his girl after he's done for gratification, but he should want to for the sake of pleasing her. Seeing my gf hit her orgasm is a great thing! In fact, last night she was on top of me and it slipped out of her at the end. She grabbed it and rubbed it against her, giving her a huge orgasm. Watching her go crazy and hearing her scream is thrilling! Dude, don't fall asleep, help her out!
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Well I actually have serious endurance lol. I literally can last hours while doing intercourse. Only once did I cum before my lover did but even than he came literally right after I did.Some people think of this as a "gift", trust me it's more of a curse than a gift! Believe it or not it becomes more of an annoyance than anything.
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Hey, that's not fair! You're gay. Try outlasting a woman time and time again. I guess I can see why you wouldn't want to outlast him. I hope, for your sake, he doesn't fall asleep when he's done!
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Thank god no he doesn't fall asleep lol! Actually we're a good match because he stays hard after orgasm and can actually get off a few times. So it kind of works out in the end LoL.
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Women don't want you to come to fast, but they don't usually want to be outlasted either. If it goes on too long, intercourse is not comfortable for the woman. Plus, once she's had enough, she'd generally prefer that the guy had come.
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In other words, to fully satisfy both partners they should finish simultaneously, but the probability that this will happen is negligible.
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Yes, we're talking about the ideal, but in any case, the woman usually prefers that she comes at the same time as or before the guy. But some women don't seem to be able to orgasm at all through intercourse.
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Since most women can't orgams from penetration alone, and me included, what I find the best is have a clit orgasm during forplay and starts sex AS SOON as i climax, then it's hot and steamy and feels good, and my bf doesn't have to last too long cuz i'm already satisfied and the sex just feels amazing. Afterwards (like 10 min of straight humpin' and bumpin') we both stumble to the bathroom to pee, then lounge for a while.
