How do i become more social and more

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Answer for what? Im perfectly happy most of the time, if you can think of anything funner that I could be doing than going to the pub with good friends having a few beers doing some kareoki then going to the haygate for some live music and finaly topping the night off with a party at my friends house I would like to know!>I've seen lots of drunks lying in the gutter.> Why would I be lying in the gutter? I dont get so drunk I cant walk and get ill thats just stupid and embarrasing for you and everyone around you.You are a 17-year-old binge drinker. If you keep it up, there's a good chance that you'll eventually really become an alcoholic. I've been around alcholics. How do you think they became alcoholcs? It's not like getting hit with a lightning bolt.Right now you're young, and it's all fun and games. It's all fuck the system. It's all I'm-invinceable-and-nothing-can-happen-to-me bullshit. It's all so, so old. You're like the billionth version of you. It's not original. Now tell us again how you can quit anytime you want, and how that will always be true.>> In the end, it really is a hollow solution.> A solution for what? Drinkings not a solution for anything, its just all in good fun.That's rubbish, Mr. Alienation. What would happen if you didn't go out and drink? Would you no longer fit in with your blokes? Would they just make fun of you and tell you to blow off?What exectly would happen to you if you didn't drink?>> Is getting trashed out of your mind every week a U.K. tradition? No wonder the Empire declined.> Getting thrashed out your mind isnt, having a few social drinks with your friends is. Is not making propper flood barriers an American tradditon? No wonder a whole citys underwater. Bashing on other peoples countrys is just anoying and ignorant.> Youre a very judemental person. How about you come to shrewsbury and come out for a night out and then make up your mind. Hell I'll even pay for it.A few social drinks? Are you lying to you or to me? You don't type the stuff you did a couple of days ago from a few social drinks. You don't go around puking your brains out from a few social drinks. You apparently live in a culture where it's OK for a kid to regularly go out and get trashed with your friends. That is one screwed-up, broken culture. If you're parents know what's going on, they deserve to lose custody of you. Yes, I'm judgemental, if that means that I don't believe that everything goes for everyone.If I came to you're bar, I'd do everything I could to get those fckers shut down for serving underage patrons. I'd be tempted to beat the living sht out of the bartender, but that would not be civilized.How about if I invite you to Miami and get you coked up for a week? Then you can rest for a day and get coked up for anothre week. I'm sure we can find some affordable stuff. Doesn't that sound like fun?You see yourself as a 30-year-old guy, and you're nowhere close.

your poser ass didnt even know what i wrote.

Er, I assume that wasn't directed at me.

Fuck you

so you really dont?

You dont know anything about my family, you dont know anything about me. Youre a judgmental fucking cunt whos oppinion has to always be right, probrably bitter because his own life is a pile of shit. You look down on everyone and think youre oh so much better. You put words in my mouth that I didnt say, "You're like the billionth version of you. It's not original. " I am me you fucking cunt, how I dress and how I look has jack shit to do whith who I am, everyones differant and no ones the same, if I wanted to be original and differant in my apperance I would go around dressed up as scooby doo in a superman cape and saw off my arms and glue them to my ass hole. I fucking know there are tons of people who probrably dress like me, and I dont really give a fuck. Good for them I fucking say. >Right now you're young, and it's all fun and games.No my life isnt all fun and fucking games. But no, you have jump to conclusions. Because all young peoples are lazy and have it easy right? Why dont you pull up some statistics and prove me wrong considering you dont have anything better to do with your pathetic life than searching shit on google to prove a bunch of teens wrong on an online forum. Your replys to articles are almost instant meaning you are on your pc nearly all day, I bet you dont have a girlfriend and probrably dont have a job, maybe you dont even have any friends and still live with your parents. Hey! I'm jumping to conclusions isnt it fun.>How about if I invite you to Miami and get you coked up for a week?If I came to Miami I would piss on youre fucking face for being a stuck up cunt.

Really dont what?

Hey im coming to England in a couple of years. I gonna look you up your town sounds awesome! And steave you say that oh europe is so much better then the U.S. and then you say its a broken culture because a person a year under the drinking age gets drunk! and its also not illegal tobuy alcohol for a person that is 17.

I see a 17-year-old kid who acts like a punk, swaggering talking about beating up people. You claim to get drunk occasionally, socially, but you put up drunken tirades at least every couple of days. You, my friend, are a spikey-haired stereotype, and you're on the road to becoming a smoking, drinking, swearing, angry oucast. Hopefully you'll mature and get past the bullshit. Given your level of drinking, though, my judement is that your parents are doing a shit job, if they have any idea what you're doing; they're doing a shit job if they don't know what you're doing.Your anger runs deep (or at least wide). It's not very impressive. It's not going to change the world. It just might eventually get you beat up and put in the hospital. I can tell you one thing: in real life, I don't just roll over in a confrontation, but I haven't been in a fist fight (more like a wrestling match) since I was 11. Something to think about.So, however pathetic you may think my life is, and however much no 1 stuff you copy and paste, it doesn't affect how you are. I have an established life, and I'm pretty happy. If I thought your life was happy, or would lead to happiness, I wouldn't be typing this. But you seem to be mostly angry.And the advice you give to high school-age kids (Go out and get drunk! It'll solve everything!) is shit. Shameful shit.

Well If you even left the house, you would get beat up and put in a hospital, He is just having fun with his life. You are just a negative person because you want life to suck and you dont want to see good in things.

And steave you say that oh europe is so much better then the U.S. and then you say its a broken culture because a person a year under the drinking age gets drunk!You have your head up your ass if you think I said that. There are things that are quite screwed up about both cultures, but that idea seems to be beyond your grasp. In any situation where 16- and 17-year-olds are regularly binge drinking, something is wrong somewhere. Go do some research and see what effect it's had on Russia.Drinking age in England is 18, with the execption of a "table meal". Going out to a bar and drinking is definitely not legal if you're underage. Might you have taken a moment to look it up?Why would a right-wing guy like you be in favor of underage binge drinking?

bullshit you said that "in Europe they live in harmony with homosexual couples... and so on" and i dont care about people like that, he sounds like a good guy who never attacks anyone unless proviked by ppl like you. YI say again you dont like to enjoy life and you just look at the negative, your just like to complain and not do anything to make it better because your life would have no purpose because you would have nothing else to complain about. ignores the political cheapshot

Well If you even left the house, you would get beat up and put in a hospital, He is just having fun with his life. You are just a negative person because you want life to suck and you dont want to see good in things.Well, you're wrong. And I still didn't put up with sh*t in high school. Amazing, isn't it?If you think getting into fights and getting drunk and hell all the time is having fun with your life, you are an immature child. I'm negative toward destructive behavior. I'm not saying life needs to be risk-free (I ski fast as hell down black diamond slopes, my snowboarding friend kiteboards...no problem there.) But sometimes you need to exercise some judgement.Take the goth thing as an example. It's innocuous. But you won't be dressing like that when you're 30. It has no long-term effects. But if you get drunk every night, there's a good chance that you'll turn out to be alcoholic (I knew some people who were in that boat before they finished college).If you really want to get drunk all the time and you're at all clever, you can find a way to do it. It doesn't make it a good idea.

You must be getting upset, because what you are typing is getting harder to read. It seems that you're still upset with me, but that's about all I could make of it. So, if you like, take a deep breath and try again, using punctuation and such.

how about you stop being an english teacher. what did you run out things to say so you just make fun of spelling errors? pardon me for not doing a spellcheck in microsoft word before posting.

I don't care about spelling errors. I did not say anything about spelling errors. What you posted did not make sense, and I understand English pretty well.This thread was started by a guy in high school who's seeking advice on how to meet people, and improve his social life. It was basically flushed down the crapper when some happy go lucky guy told the OP to go out and get drunk. Why did you feel the need to jump on the hijacking of the thread? And you support the idea of high school kids going out and getting drunk? Very mature.Does anyone have anything to say that's relevant to the thread topic?

When did I say i was mature. I am very immature at times, but mature at other times. he doesnt bindge drink, he even said so. and i think weed or a little alcohol doesnt flaw a persons character.

he doesnt bindge drink, he even said so. and i think weed or a little alcohol doesnt flaw a persons character.He says he's not a binge drinker, yet he's been trashed out of his mind several times this week. We're not talking about "weed or a little alcohol". We're talking about someone who's on a trajectory to becoming an alcoholic. I've seen it plenty of times, and it totally sucks. There's nothing good about being an alcoholic.What seems like fun and games from your inexperienced perspective is not. Ask people who've been there.

He's just had a wild week!

He has a lot of wild weeks. He's an adolescent heavy drinker. Why do you keep rationalizing that away? Forget about jumping to the defense of someone you think is being beat on. Think: What would really be in his best interest?