How can u tell if sum1's gay?

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i think sum of my m8s cud b gay or bi. how cud i tell if they where? is there any signs? im bi n i'd love 2 no if they r.

Sorry we don't hold up signs saying we're gay/bi lol. Not sure of a real way to find out unless you ask (If you're that bold). Do you guys watch porn together? If so while watching porn make a comment about the guy (not saying to say something like "Oh he's hot, I'd love to suck his penis" but something more casual).Not sure if that helps, but that's kind of a touchy subject since you don't want to offend anyone or make anyone uncomfortable.

This site has some answers but because of the low number of people in the study, the validity of the answers is questionable. Basically what they found was that straight men move their arms more from the shoulder and they slouch more, whereas the gay men moved their arms more from the elbow down and they tend to sit a little neater than straight men. ABC News: Test Your Gaydar

....really.....
being gay has nothing to do with neatness, one of the stereotypes I hate the most. My house is clean, but it is lived in as well.

Never heard about this elbow things before, actually makes me laugh alittle. If this study is for real it's a very sad study.

I guess you have to be active in the gay society to understand why thats funny. You'd be shocked how many gay men there are our there that you'd have no clue they were gay unless they told you.

Of course it's easy to spot the obvious ones that fit all the steroetypes and talk with the signature gay lisp. However, if that fits your friends, you wouldn't be asking here. I'm sure the vast majority of gays or bis do not fit the stereotypes at all. I don't know if coming out and asking your friends is the smartest thing to do if you don't want them to know you're bi. I guess I'm not much help, am I. Good luck.

Yeah, I know the stereotypes. I was just pointing out and highlighting the article. After I read that article, I noticed that I do do more movement from my elbow than most people that I've seen around, but on the other hand, I'm not considered neat. I'm not even considered messy. I'm just sort of in a class of my own when it comes to my extreme messyness. Just as an example, as much as I hate to say and admit it, because of the school cancellation, last night was the first shower I had taken in 2 and a half days.

Sorry we don't hold up signs saying we're gay/bi lol. Not sure of a real way to find out unless you ask (If you're that bold).I don't know how it is in Akron, but in South Beach a lot of gay men do everything but hold up a sign indicating their orientation. Since it's a more or less safe environment, it makes it a lot easier to find someone to have a relationship with. (By the way, I once had a gay roomate, and we lived a block from Twist, the best-known gay club in the area, and the roomate was friends with one of their bartenders. In other words, I have seen men who I knew were gay.)I was in Washington, D.C. a couple of weeks ago, and I stayed at a hotel in Dupont Circle, which is definitely a gay area. I don't think I could have picked out a single gay person there. Most people looked like generic businessmen. But I did see a lot of rainbow flags.Anyway, go to Provincetown and tell me you can't tell who's gay.

Gay ppl talk like different. and they dress really nice and have their hair done good and ye.

What about the more fundamental signs, like the guys that go to a lot of trouble to see you in the school showers?

You have no idea what gay means, do you?

Actually there's a guy that i met today, and i'm incredibly curious if he's gay or not, cuz he exhibits the stereotypical "signs". He's a very neat and great dresser, he LOVES shopping and has an extravagant taste, he chats a lot, and his voice has that 'soft' quality to it. I know that he could have any sexual orientation, but i can't help but think! I've always wanted a gay guy friend to go shopping with... , then again, I know that a lot of gay men hate shopping, and straight men who love it.

Yeah there are some gay guys that are easy to spot, deff not denying that LoL.Oh and I want to check this Provincetown out, soudns fun! LoL Oh and Jenjen, I'm one of those gay guys that hates shopping lol. I dunno I just cannot get into it.

It's hard to tell who is gay unless your gaydar is tuned up correctly....I hate shopping unless it's going to Home Depot or Lowes

I hate shopping unless it's going to Home Depot or LowesOne of the Village People is a hardhat-wearing construction guy character.

hey, I have a hard hat and a tool belt

Thanks Steve....Just like Mr.U ......I look good in a tool belt with or without the jeans.

Without the jeans preferred =-P~~

LOLEddie, I love you man!Peace Brother!Humming the song YMCA......YMCA....YMCA

Well, the only way to tell is to either ask, or do suttle things around the person you're interested in. I wouldn't call myself bisexual because I absolutely love men, but I have had a few encounters through the years. Mainly to satisfy my partners sexual fantasies. Not saying I didn't like it though. Anyway, each and every time, I was the one who found the girl to sleep with. One time it was a friend, another time a complete stranger. Let me go off on that one. She was constantly checking me out and smiling. We were in a club and she was dancing. I went up and danced with her. I started with light touching on her hips and eventually kissed her. I knew she would be accepting.All in all, my experience was by observing how she looked at me.

i do.. hahah gay really means happy. has nothign to do with sex. but..... well yeah it's been turned into a umm not meaning happy word.. ok nm.i guess gay could be happy to be wiht ur same sex nv me! i'm ..... bored