I'm straight and happily married to my wife of 21 years. We met at the ages of 15 in 10th grade so there isn't much we haven't tried together.But there is one thing I've tried unsuccessfully to get her to try. I like anal sex and she says she does too, but she also says it hurts a little at first.Well, I really love this girl and don't like the idea she has to hurt alone. So i purposed that she buy a strap on with a dildo approximately the size I am and told her if she was going to take it in the tail that she could then do me.She won't go for it. I think in her head it might make me appear gay or something. I could understand that senitment but the fact is I do not have the least amount of desire to have a penis in my ass, but I'd take a dildo at her hands so to speak.Anyone have any suggestions what I might entice her with to get her open to the idea? It may be the high price of a strap-on that makes her negative toward the idea. Thoe puppies aren't cheap.Ok, so I'm a sick-o but most of us guys know how good having the prostate rubbed on can feel.
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How to get my wife to do it?
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I don't think there's anything sick about what you are asking. but some women are just not into that. They probably don't view it as gay either, it's simply something they are not comfortable doing. Maybe it's something you could do to yourself as you are having sex with your wife. I have a straight male friend that loves to use a dildo on himself as he's having intercourse with his wife. He says his fav position is to lay down and let her ride him as he reaches around and uses the dildo on himself. He says it gives him an awesome orgasm.Maybe that's an otion for you. And hwo knows maybe after she sees your enjoyment she might become curious and want to try doing it to you.
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**I actually think that a lot of what turns women off anal sex, is the dirty smelly element, and i am not sure how you can encourage her to do you with a dildo if thats what she thinks.
You must have talked about this, what does she say her reason is........ **
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Thanks Ntro...AW, all she does is make a shuddering movement and the chills going down her back sound. Haven't been able to get any real answer from her yet. It's one of those things I'm not going to push her on so I don't keep badgering her for an answer.
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I think it probably is the reason i said is the idea makes her shudder. I admire the fact you're not pushing it hon. and please, if your staying around, call me Angel (for tis my name) and AW is sooo formal LOL
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Will do Angel.
BTW, the picture you have under your name, that face looks exactly like my co-workers wifes face. And with such an angels face AW does sound a little IM'ish.
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LOL well i can assure you its not a pic of your co-workers face, for tis me grin...........anyone else noticing iv'e gone all medieval for some reason LOL
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hehe I notice, thought it was awfully cute! heheAnd Auto, it's very admirable you are not pushing it on her. Shows you're one of the few good men out there.If this is something you really want, something like I mentioned above might help. If nothing else it might give way to whether it's something she'll even tolerate being done even if you're the one doing. As always the biggest key is communication, and it sounds like you already have that established. =-D
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you're welcome.......sigh
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Anal Sex....Unforgetto……Hope is not lost yet!I would ask a gay man who’s into ass. It needs to be clean before someone gonna put anything down there or in there! There is nothing fun about attempting to rim someone and finding it dirty… Eeeuuuwww!Prepare for your backside adventure. Try a little cleaning out and washing up before you attempt it. It will make the experience a heck of a lot better.Trust me, there’s nothing grosser that pulling your dick out of someone’s ass and it’s muddy!
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Okay, let me try to answer some of your questions the best I can, if I were in your position……“But there is one thing I've tried unsuccessfully to get her to try. I like anal sex and she says she does too, but she also says it hurts a little at first.”Why is she having so much of a problem? You state she likes anal sex. How would you like having a fat hard dick shoved up your ass several times really hard? It usually is quite painful at first. You either have to work your partner up to the point where they are relaxed and trusting enough to take it in the heat of the moment and it is less painful. (Unless, you’re a true bottom… Oink- Oink)”Well, I really love this girl and don't like the idea she has to hurt alone. So I purposed that she buy a strap on with a dildo approximately the size I am and told her if she was going to take it in the tail that she could then do me.”Practice does make it less painful. Perhaps, suggest letting her do it to you so she can see it doesn’t hurt that much. The way I look at it, turnabout is fair play.”She won't go for it. I think in her head it might make me appear gay or something. I could understand that sentiment but the fact is I do not have the least amount of desire to have a penis in my ass, but I'd take a dildo at her hands so to speak”.Perhaps, suggest letting her do it to you so she can see it doesn’t hurt that much. Ass play does not make you gay. Being emotionally and physically attracted to a MOSS does.”Anyone have any suggestions what I might entice her with to get her open to the idea? It may be the high price of a strap-on that makes her negative toward the idea. Those puppies aren't cheap.”I personally like using the bowling ball grip and a vibrator when you are doing a little ass play. It stimulates both areas, which might help her forget she has some fingers poking around her backside. Be patient, Go slowly and take the time to make it more enjoyable for her than you.