Why do Guys Cheat?

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StealthWarrior that is so true! You make me want to cry right now. Now I feel bad talking to guys on here and my boyfriend has no idea that I do. Well, I'm not really cheating though??? I don't think chatting a sometimes with other guys is considered cheating? But like you said, this must be the 20 percent that I'm feeding into. I'll try not too.

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You can delete a post of your own (within an hour), but I don't think the post will completely delete if it's been replied to. Click on "Edit".

G.String...I don't think I would consider chatting with guys really cheating, that depends how far you take it. It's not like you're married like me...LOL. But I'm pretty good on here. (At least I think so?)

Is getting involved in the "fliry" threads bad if you're in a relationship?

well thanks for that but like I said I dont know for fact its correct but it got me alot of sex when I was using it to my advantage for that purpose. I a now hoping that that knowledge can help me to keep my own future wife happy and at home. got any other tips on keeping the significant other from straying?

I'm a good girl on here. So maybe it's not as bad as I'm making it out to be. Thank you honeeee!! Kisses to you!

I don't think I would consider chatting with guys really cheating, that depends how far you take itI agree with you. As long as it's all in fun than I see no harm. But onces you become serious, than you are creeping towards the line.

I think every relationship is different. If you're ok with it and you don't have any guilty feelings...then no.

If you were a flirty-thread participant, would you be willing to show the threads to your partner?

Thanks for the tip on the deleting SteveA.

Me personally or in general?

I know wasn't a question to me, but I show Adam the boards all the time and the "perverted" things I have said. He laughs about it because he knows it's all in play, plus he knows my sense of humor.

In general, not you personally. I'm asking the people who participate in those sub-threads, and who have a significant other. Would they be willing to show those threads to their partner? If not, I'd be worried.

**well as a frequent slut of the boards LOL i have to say, yeah he has seen what i have written, and he, like adam n eddie, knows my sense of humour and laughs with me...........I wouldn't do it if he wasn't happy with it, i mean c'mon its a public forum, how hard would it be to check anyway? ** :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:

True... it's a public site. I don't think I've posted anything out of the norm on here.

Well, my bf is a very jealous type and he would be pretty pissed if he found out I even posted anything on this site.

Yeah, but most people stay pretty anonymous. You'd usually have to follow someone's posts for a while to get an inkling of who they are, if you know them. That gives a lot of people license to say things they wouldn't if the weren't anonymous.There are people who post things about having cheated on their partner, while the partner still doesn't know what's going on.

I have to agree with that one SteveA.

Well, people do stay hidden, but I never bothered not for a few years anyways.many people on here have the same theory as well and post links to personal sites. my own can be found HEREmany people on this forum have the same set up as I jsut posted. I try to keep my shit atleast half sane, but Im not ashamed or scared. I have met MANY MANY MANY people from online sites but noone from this one to the best of my knowledge.that secret identity shit does lead to many people running thier mouths and saying shit that they never would aside from that condidition. That can be both good and bad.